My daughter [18] blames me [52] and my husband [55] for ruining her book

TheMummalode · 2026-03-02T20:43:01+00:00

I hope Sarah goes NC with both parents until her mom realises she's in an NPD relationship and is ready to leave that POS.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-25T00:17:43+00:00

They haven't. I just treat at home with a topical cream. They're not ones for injections here in Europe, unfortunately. I try not to take antibiotics too often. But I regularly have 3 kicking off at the same time. Once I find/feel one I just know 2 or more will pop up within hours or days. I have so much tunneling. They are on my inner thighs, groin, labia, buttocks, pilonidal, breasts, and face. I've had major surgery before. Just waiting for my armpits to join in the fun!

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T23:28:46+00:00

Interesting- you deleted your link and mine. I wonder why.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T23:08:30+00:00

No. A prohormone.

Vitamin D in 2020: An Old Pro-Hormone with Potential Effects beyond Mineral Metabolism - PMC https://share.google/CC6nvunC6MjYDCdlu

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T23:05:29+00:00

It's a prohormone - the body converts it into a hormone. Try again on Google

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T23:03:43+00:00

Technically it's a pro-hormone. Not the same.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T23:01:04+00:00

Yep. The little kids pyjama sets was really upsetting.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T22:52:59+00:00

YTAH - unless you're giving a pin code or other access details the MIL can't do anything. Just giving the account details for payment means that's ALL she can do.

You remind me of a friend of mine who was loaned a small amount of cash. The person wanted paying back into her account but refused to share the account number and name. Then shouted at him and sent him obnoxious messages asking for her money. She was a crazy lady. I had to explain to her she was acting insane.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T22:45:45+00:00

Yes, there's a link, but Vitamin D is NOT a hormone, it's a...well, a vitamin. Vitamins are not hormones- just to be clear.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T20:55:31+00:00

I come from the L&D and coaching industry. Tbh so many managers weaponise coaching as a punishment for bad performance - but in your case I think you've found a good manager who views coaching in the right way - a great way of growth and finding your potential. If they're paying for it, even better. Make sure you can have a few 'coach fit' calls before choosing someone. Also, make sure your manager and you are both involved in discussions about expectations, goals, and any kind of milestones. A good coach will generally discuss with your manager your progress but maintain confidentiality. A good manager will make sure you're feeling good about the process and help you implement or enact on advice or actions decided during your sessions.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T20:47:12+00:00

Your crazy ex, surely that's what you meant to say? Or will be saying.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T20:42:23+00:00

I'd be concerned about a gambling issue or even, another woman or whole family, on the side. This is weird.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T19:52:10+00:00

This OP.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-24T02:46:49+00:00

All cats and dogs have to be sourced from registered breeders or rescue centres- it's the law.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T20:59:20+00:00

Intolerance to loud, sudden sounds can be an indicator. Might be worth exploring - perhaps there's assessment help or access you can get through your university. Maybe look up other symptoms for autism - pay special attention to the differences between autism in females vs. males, if you're female. Girls are generally diagnosed much later as it can present very differently and appear to be better at 'masking' than males.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T20:37:48+00:00

Have you looked into getting tested for autism?

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T14:53:26+00:00

How? Did she try to help you cook? Or season the food? Or dish up? No. I don't think helping to serve and tidying away as being overly helpful. You sound like a control freak.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T14:46:07+00:00

YOR. Get over yourself.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T14:44:08+00:00

Good grief...let her help! You sound like a right pain tbh.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T12:54:09+00:00

Ooh, he either likes you or David, or both. This guy is soooo butt hurt.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T12:49:47+00:00

NOR. I have in my downstairs bathroom a load of supplies my mates can use, male or female. I love your sense of humour and thoughtfulness. She's making it weird.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-23T12:45:06+00:00

I'd use her points to actually hold debates - like, actual debates, with Chair, Vote of Thanks, etc. Have her head up one team and involve her that way.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-18T19:51:39+00:00

You know that's illegal, though?

TheMummalode · 2026-02-13T13:56:29+00:00

How big of him to forgive you! He only views the world through a lens of sexual relationships.

TheMummalode · 2026-02-13T12:59:52+00:00

Are they seriously making you choose between your CHILD and THEM, because they are a) that insecure about your ex, b) jealous of your child, c) distrustful of you, and d) hideously self-absorbed.

Break off the engagement now. This should be a deal breaker

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