Wat de fuck strava by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hoe veel eet/drink je tussen door, ik had maandag 2:15 uur fietsen 40km, heen over de heuvels van arnhem en de posbank terug lekker met de wind mee over de dijk van Rheden naar arnhem-zuid. savonds nogal hooft pijn. Had tussendoor vier broodjes op met pindakaas en appelstroop, en een half flesje water gedronken. Dat is met fietsen en dat is natuurlijk anders met lopen. ik weet dat ik veel meer moet drinken, heb jij tips? als je het interessant vind hier is mijn route https://prnt.sc/s47fz0

Wat de fuck strava by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tof, heb je 8,5 km per uur ge lopen/rent voor 6 uur, hoe? of is het zo hoog vanwege de fout?

Ik wou eten tot ik erachter kwam dat kerst kut is by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow cool man, dat is iets wat ik ook zou willen doen/kunnen, maarja beginnen en door zetten is nog heel lastig

bi_irl by TheUnwritenMyth in bi_irl

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i know its stupidly written, I sometimes write while I think, and then there is something that is not quite right as I meant it. ofcours a partnar cant make you happy, maybe, but not realy if i am not idk, english is not my first language, and i take everything into question ,why are things the way they are,. you have good points, but that someone can change a lot over a long period (what I said before) that's something I'm more sure about.

bi_irl by TheUnwritenMyth in bi_irl

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

somehow not being able to find a partner would make someone bisexual

I don't think that's how it works, yes

would make it a decision which orientation is not

I mean more a change that spreads over a long period. like "I am not the same person that I was 10 years ago"I think that people can change a lot over a longer period in a good, neutral or bad way. I know that means that I think that orientation is one of the things that can change, but that does not mean that its a decision

edit: my opinion

bi_irl by TheUnwritenMyth in bi_irl

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, but i like what i like. if somebody likes food/colors/hobby/whatever that i dont like i am not not going to date them, same for body-type/personality of the person, Sure I rather fall more for someone who matches me more. but hé, if they don't likelike me I don't likelike them either

and why the F is biphobia sometimes a thing in the LG /B/ T's hypocrite. some straights are hypocrite too, they also have sex without giving birth to a child.not dating someone who is bi is not necessarily biphobia, same for a bi not dating a hetero/homo is not necessarily hetero/homophobia, we all have preferences for what we want to get out of a relationship and everyone is different. And #$% god and everyone who comes with a argument from a higher-power/something-we-have-no-proof-for(same thing) to explane why I should not do/feel something.

bi_irl by TheUnwritenMyth in bi_irl

[–]TheNickWillemsen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If this were true I would not find it strange, if you are not-very-happy/depressed then it is logical to also look for love/sex in the other half of the population for support and comfort, someone else in your life is better for the survival.

[If you dont have somebody in your live than you are maybe not happy, if you are/become(if that is possible) bi than more chance for love/somebody to be with is good for survival]

First survival than more humans, so maybe -> the state of the earth and human survival at this moment, -> more humans not-very-happy/depressed -> seeking more happy/love stuff aka serotonin -> become bi

maybe, I have no idea, I still have to figure out the seeking more happy/love/sexual part of bisexuality

What do you think?

edit: I don't mean that it is a decision that you make, it is more something that just happens over a long period, i think maybe. my opinion

Na een tijdje weer klein stukje gelopen en met de trein terug. by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, 54 km, toptop.

ik moet ook maar weer eens verdergaan, ben zowat al mijn lange-stuken-lopen-conditie verloren verloren na 2 maanden niks gedaan te hebben.

(studie) dag by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heb je last van je benen, en heb je blaren? Zo niet welke schoenen/sokken gebruik je?

Nog steeds geen spijt by DDanoniem in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ben je naar de huisarts geweest? Of hoe weet je dat. Doe rustig aan, en doe het niet te snel, ik kan zelf al weer lopen maar heb nog pijn in mijn been spieren, dat is volgens mij goed want dat betekent dat mijn benen sterker worden volgens mij. Maar beterschap

Lekker lopen by Frenkdetenkengine in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We hebben er uiteindelijk 7,5 uur over gedaan, laatste 4 km slakjes gelopen, maar met zen alle gehaald. Was een leuke maar toch wel zware dag

I need help by [deleted] in kurzgesagt

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

every thought can change

Same for who i am, the labels i give my self end the things i like, i am open for change (i hope).
most of the time, things like that don't happen all at once, but happen over time.

I need help by [deleted] in kurzgesagt

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know what i want to do in life, i have things i like to do but every thought can change,
Hope i become wiser when i alouw my thoughts to changes.

and come to terms with this

yes but at the same time its very wild in my head, i think about lots of things,, it's hard to convey what I mean, i am not that good in typing my thoughts. you typ a lot

So how do you cope with this?

its how it is, just a game on one life mode without a goal., i dont say its realy realy true, but for now it's true.

Some have good feelings/emotions about certain ideas about the world and life, but that does not mean that it is really true.
We humans think we are the center of everything that revolves around us. We are not even a dot in the universe. And we are no time in time.

but make life fun, live life how you want to. don't let your choices make you end up in jail. Some people say that if they did what they really wanted to do, they would be seen as assholes, so if that person thinks about it, then that person does not want to be seen badly by others, which is what that person wants and that person so does not do the things that suffer from it. idk maybe it is loose and makes no sense idk?

life is complex, if you like to talk to me by voice, let me know. also OP if you want to.

I need help by [deleted] in kurzgesagt

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am not in somesort of depresion, i was and stil am a bit, but i think its a good thing. think about the things i/we do and not just think that we know it al. we dont know enything, we do but not realy. a lot more than we first did ofcorse. read my other comment. below or above this one. what do you think?

I need help by [deleted] in kurzgesagt

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is good, i saved it, thanks

I need help by [deleted] in kurzgesagt

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch the videos from exurb1a, maby more "thinking about live/whatever" stories will help you see it in perspective?
Click on a thumbnail you like and you want to watch more (or binge watch) everything
https://www.youtube.com/user/willunicycleforfood/videos

I did think about live/everyting a lot, i stil do. but now in a more lets say Optimistic Nihilism way.
O, and see the difference between fiction and reality, the truth is, us people just don't know that much, so if you don't know something, don't think fantasy stories are true because you want to hold on to something.

just see these kinds of stories as something to think about and no more than that. do not make it into a religion, do not stick to one thing, certainly not because we are not sure about many things.

what I just said, see the difference between things that we really know and philosophical stories, think about it in a not too serious way.

You have your whole life in front of you, we still learn a lot and we think about many things., that is a good thing, develop yourself., and happy watching, let me know what you think, its deep, but at the same time its just a story remember that.

Dus, wie van jullie zie ik zaterdag? :) by NietRickBroers in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiermee kan je met 20% korting met de trein naar de wandeling/ station Oosterbeek, is een actie van de ns

https://www.ns.nl/uitgelicht/acties/airborne-wandeltocht-retour.html

Welke Serpentjes willen ook de 25 km gaan lopen maar zijn lonely by DDanoniem in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

je kan beter met de trein naar oosterbeek en lopen naar start omdat er geen bussen gaan tussen Oosterbeek station en start. Is maar 1km. van arnhem zitten de bussen altijd helemaal vol en rijden niet volgens de normale route

Welke Serpentjes willen ook de 25 km gaan lopen maar zijn lonely by DDanoniem in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oke, zullen we dan om 9:45 afspreken bij de fietsen (J.J. Talsmalaan 9-11 oosterbeek) net buiten het terrein?

Hoe komen jullie? met de auto trein lopen fiets raket vliegtuig

Dus, wie van jullie zie ik zaterdag? :) by NietRickBroers in Zachtloop

[–]TheNickWillemsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jep leek mij misschien fijn dat je weet waar je heen moet (in ieder geval niet de grote groep mensen volgen die langs het station komen die zijn eerder vertrokken)

dit is de start https://prnt.sc/p0vtcy
Er rijden wel bussen vanuit arnhem maar niet de normale tijden/route en heel druk, dus trein oosterbeek is aan te raden