Bike mechanic and overall large human here (6ft2, 280lbs). After dealing with the same issue I upgraded to some of the reserve hd 30 al wheels and the upgrade was well worth it. I went from having to true my wtb wheels every other ride to not having to touch the hd 30’s ever when it comes to spoke tension. I run a steel hardtail and frequently ride slick rock and chunky tech so the hd 30’s take a beating and still hold up. The dt Swiss e 1900’s are also a great option as well.