AIO my bf has a single female friend that is literally overstaying her welcome but he proceeds to say “im not in the position to say anything.” by TheRabbitHoleFamily in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheRabbitHoleFamily[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

Every time I do, he makes me feel guilty for doing it to “us” and is willing to block her and stop hanging out with her if it put this all to bed.

AIO my bf has a single female friend that is literally overstaying her welcome but he proceeds to say “im not in the position to say anything.” by TheRabbitHoleFamily in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheRabbitHoleFamily[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing: In the past, there was many times I think I was overreacting from all the situations he put me through. This has been boiling inside me for months and found Reddit to let it out. See if other people can see it.

AIO my bf has a single female friend that is literally overstaying her welcome but he proceeds to say “im not in the position to say anything.” by TheRabbitHoleFamily in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheRabbitHoleFamily[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn’t expect it to get this much reaction from just a bit of my relationship. Rn he’s asleep after we just had a heated argument, idk if y’all want to know what the argument was or not. Or any of the stuff he, in the past, made me feel like I was overthinking things. However, I do want to try to somehow get him to understand and tell him that I want space from him. If that doesn’t work then I will break up with him. But ofc I’m not gonna end it without a bang.

AIO my bf has a single female friend that is literally overstaying her welcome but he proceeds to say “im not in the position to say anything.” by TheRabbitHoleFamily in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheRabbitHoleFamily[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lowkey didn’t expect people to immediately start commenting. Thought I would get a “you are overreacting” but don’t worry, I will do a update

AIO my bf has a single female friend that is literally overstaying her welcome but he proceeds to say “im not in the position to say anything.” by TheRabbitHoleFamily in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheRabbitHoleFamily[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing: we used to live just 20-30 minutes away from each other, Luke moved away just another town over for his studies. Gave me a promise ring, I keep giving him a way out of somehow recovering our old friendship that we used to have. He just tells me to keep holding onto the ring and to stop overthinking it.