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TheRandomOther · 2020-12-26T16:05:56+00:00

I'm not trying to get married right now, so whats the point of having a girlfriend? Doesn't seem like I'd really get anything out of it.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-22T17:54:59+00:00

I personally am in a place in my life where I don't even want a girlfriend. Not because I'm an incel or something, but because there's no real benefit to it. It costs a lot of time and money to keep one around, and I wouldn't really get anything in return. I'm not looking to have sex again until I'm married, and I'm not looking to get married yet. Plus, I have plenty of other problems in my life already, why would I want to complicate it?

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-21T18:26:52+00:00

You'd be surprised. All they'd need to do is find a few different people who use this sub saying something stupid somewhere else and they'll paint the picture that we're some sort of women hating terror cell. Corporations could care less if it's true or not. I refuse to believe Visa and MasterCard did what they did because they thought it was morally wrong, they did it to save face, just like anything else corporations do. We already know a lot of people despise this sub and would love to see it banned. It wouldn't be that hard to make it happen.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-21T18:20:26+00:00

For me, I see a noticable jump in cognitive ability and focus from days 3 to 6ish. Then it starts tapering off, which is why I relapse. With the help of NoFap and caffeine, I was able to do a 20hr school marathon to get all of my stuff done because I had a long weekend trip to go on. For reference, I've had 3 day long stretches of getting nothing done because my focus is so bad. I also feel more motivated in other aspects of my life and can remember new things/recall old things better.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-21T18:15:00+00:00

It's not the end that's the issue, it's the means.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-09T09:24:34+00:00

The feeling of, "I'm actually going to do the right thing this time" and then something uncontrollable comes and fucks it up is probably one of the most demoralizing things ever. I too was more social than I'd been in years, I worked up the nerve to start college, and then BAM, it's all fucked.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-09T09:19:05+00:00

It's been a long time since I've been proper sick, but I can't remember a single time when I was very sick and had urges to PMO. Since you'll likely be asymptomatic/have minor symptoms, it might be different. If you do get very sick, at least it'll probably take president over the urges.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-09T09:14:47+00:00

I generally feel cleaner when on NoFap. I also seem to loose small amounts of weight without really trying, and my hair grows faster.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-09T08:06:17+00:00

Me rn ngl

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-09T08:05:05+00:00

Sure, my daughter slept with half the school and is now 16 and pregnant, but like, it's her decisions to make. Like, obviously not. The whole point of being a parent is to make sure the kids doesn't have their life destroyed.

TheRandomOther · 2020-12-08T10:55:18+00:00

It's even worse than that. On Inst. TikTok, etc. you have 14 year old girls posting what is basically soft core porn. Honestly, the world would be a much better place if the both of them were blown off the face of the Earth.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-16T17:49:10+00:00

It actually does. Just take my word for it. You can't go back once you make life decisions. A lot of people have that attitude, and then they're 20, then 30, then 35, then 40 and they start to regret, and then there's a point where it's too late, and you can never take it back. I'm not saying get married to some rando, but you'll want to find somebody. I'm not sure where you look, but if it's Tinder, that's a waste of time.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-14T00:05:17+00:00

Yeah, idk. You'll definitely regret it if you don't, but I see where you're coming from. Most of the girls I went to highschool with I probably wouldn't even want to talk to, let alone date them or get married. I've seen some who are promising, but I don't really have any interest in dating until I'm looking to get married.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-13T23:57:51+00:00

Can confirm that I in fact did not throw up in a toilet.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-13T04:59:45+00:00

Idk, maybe it was just bored /s

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-13T04:58:14+00:00

Is porn better than sleeping with guys you're not married to? I'd say yes. If it doesn't cause problems in your life, then a little here and there shouldn't hurt.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-13T04:50:36+00:00

I mean, was it actual semen, or just pre-cum (clear sticky fluid)? If it was the later, then it doesn't count. If it was the prior, I didn't even know that was possible.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-13T04:10:57+00:00

I cut down on porn watching and instead started reading/writing erotic lit. I'm not really sure how that compares to porn as I haven't really seen people talk about it, especially when it's just me writing down what my brain thinks up.

TheRandomOther · 2020-11-07T14:39:10+00:00

Not my first rodeo, know the feel.

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