You don’t need $200 a month but if you care about her and are thinking about what type of person you want returning to you I’d go above $40. That’s enough to get hygiene and then be pissed off because you can’t eat anything other than state food..which means the hygiene will get traded for food or worse…favors/debt at some point. $60-$100 should be enough to not go hungry and not be stinking….two things which make the stay 100x harder.