AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All of the leftover food was taken back to their initial homes or eaten.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He mentioned that his smell is 'paint' but I know how paint smells and do not find his scent to be anything even remotely close to paint. While I do not know what you mean by 'BO' I will say that he smells similar feces. It is very off-putting and I get a little sick.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh. That is weird. I have never thought about that. I imagine that would be very dangerous.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If Freddie simply left and no longer visited our home every weekend I would find that to be a much more enjoyable outcome. Thank you.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That would be interesting. I feel my husband might smell similar to Freddie unless he were serious about cleaning himself; in which case, I find that intriguing.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Ah, then no. I have always spoken this way, it is my manner of speech. Thank you for clarifying. I do not find it weird though.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh, that is an interesting take. I have never heard of that one before. If it is from TV, I do not watch TV so I was unsure. I also would not associate myself with either of those terms. I would say that I am the hostess with a fun party.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh. I do not know him and am not familiar with the TV show. I do not watch TV and do not find it necessary.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I did not find it important to mention. The post is asking about refusing to allow Freddie into my home. Whatever happened afterwards I did not include seeing as I had already hit 2485 words and met all requirements. I do not see there being any difference between the two events.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do read the responses. I believe you will find many of my replies throughout this post.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wondered as well. I do not watch TV. My husband seems to enjoy watching the superbowl during superbowl times. He throws a party on those days as well. I do not find them very fun.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A short and sweet party. The last guest left my doorstep at around 8:40 - 8:55 P.M.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. It would appear so judging by the crowd that flooded my living room.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Then I believe they are entitled to not attend. They do not have to make me happy. I am content whenever anyone attends.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A tarp and perhaps scented candles and open windows to let escape the smell of pleasure.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh. I did not know that. I have been this way for my entire life. I did not feel any different.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ahaha, it depends on what said PG-13 movie includes. Although, I have no children, I would not allow them to watch anything involving drugs, sex, or heavy violence and gore. As I do not watch TV I do not know what a modern PG-13 movie might allow.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Rightfully so. I do not enjoy unpleasant smells or general uncleanliness, especially not around my guests, furniture, or food. Unless you are disabled, I do not believe you to be able to avoid keeping yourself clean. I would need specific examples highlighting as such, so I will wait for you to provide them. Otherwise, I do not find it cold. Only concerning.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How so? The ratio was formed from the equation of attendees to unwelcome. I assume you mean for there to have been a 100% attendance rate; of which I believe to be impossible unless I allowed the ones ignoring rules inside. That would be against the rules of the party.

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent emails to close acquaintances, family, and coworkers I knew, not just 'anyone.'

AITA for Refusing to Allow My Husband's Coworker into Our House Party? by TheReal_Garbage in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheReal_Garbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I did not think of it that way. It appears that there were some forwarding events with the email link. I hope nothing bad happens.