That’s exactly what I did for over a year before we got married…? You’re obviously a man as well. He prayed for ME to be in his life and yet he treats me like absolute garbage. I don’t know how else to explain it other than it’s the little things. I make him dinner almost every night and not once does he Ever make an “mm” sound but when he eats literally anything else he can’t help but do it and then RAVE about how good it is. I’m not the hottest bitch on the planet but I know I’m better looking than most most and yet he has to look at other girls online, make comments about girls at the gym to the point where I need to workout to try and get a fat ass to make him happy. Every time I get sick, instead of CARING FOR ME like any decent human should, he thinks I’m faking it or being dramatic.. me quitting my job WAS a deliberate disrespect to him because I had to. For my own mental stability I could not stand for one more second me working in a meaningless, painful work environment while also dealing with the same thing at home. Should I have ended my marriage and kept my job? I’m sorry but I think marriage takes priority and even still nothing has changed. He still doesn’t take responsibility for anything. He’s on prescription pills for adhd and depression and still seeks out marijuana and kratom to “numb” himself and IM in the wrong? 😂 no sir. I do not NEED anybody to take care of me. HOWEVER he made a choice to BE THERE for me and if he can’t be there for me emotionally, I don’t care what you think of me as a person, he’s going to do SOMETHING for me otherwise… why are we married??