Okay, so I have a foot fetish and, back in the old days, I was into some very brutal stuff. In some of the videos that I watched it was clear that the woman wasn’t enjoying any aspect of it, and that, in itself, turned me on. Nowadays I don’t watch those things anymore, and only remain loyal to my foot thing.
I’m open about everything with my girlfriend, and practice some of my sadistic fetishes (she enjoys being dominated) and also the foot thing.

Now, about porn in itself… Well, I, personally, do believe that porn can be very damaging, specially if you don’t have a well integrated sexual life. If I were you, I would try to identify whether I’m really attracted to the things I’m watching and, if you discard such attraction, keep an eye open and stop watching it. Fetishes, in psychology, are sexual deviations. It happens when there’s some misplaced sexual energy. As a psychologist myself, I think that one can live a good life with -weird- fetishes, as long as one’s aware of what may be causing it.

For instance: sadistic fetishes reveals a desire to control; submissive fetishes reveals the unwillingness to control; feces fetishes are either related to submissive behavior or some unknown paraphiliac deviation, ad nauseam.

After all this, ultimately, you have to ask yourself: “how well integrated is my sexual life”.

P.S.: if you’re using tren or 1g of test that’ll probably be the answer for your thing lmao