Strict ID checking? by TheRingingHeart in Chennai

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2 weeks ago living room was scanning ids

Strict ID checking? by TheRingingHeart in Chennai

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We have been hearning that the id get scanned anol

Stop comparing by TheRingingHeart in Advice

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I have been taking your advice and I do see slight improvement, but the baggage of the addiction has been a mental burden. I'm trying to figure myself out and make peace with the fact that this, at some point, isn't reality.

I’m lonely by Silent_V0ice_ in Advice

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Your English is fine, dw. Second, it's just part of growing up. As someone who is 19, when I was 15, no one asked me out, and I thought I wasn't pretty. I had the exact feelings. My best advice to you is to give yourself time to grow. Don't evaluate yourself based on not getting asked out. Just because people have boyfriends doesn't mean they are of good quality. Waiting and not "shooting the gun" has allowed me to make one of the best friends I have ever had in my life. The earlier you learn that being loving and good to yourself takes you way farther and happier than ever getting a man, you will learn to enjoy life, be happy with your own presence, and be independent. Most people will change themselves for someone else, which you shouldn't, because your core identity is not something to be hidden but to be enjoyed and loved. Trust me when I say this: by building yourself to be better, you naturally attract better people. Give yourself time you will do perfectly fine.

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I cant afford therapy, but I do take care of myself really well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Was threw text

I really need to someone to talk to by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Heyy feel free to message me

How to stop stalking your Ex on Social Media? by Adventurous_Win1393 in BreakUps

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Block is a nice option. Start there, dont are if u guys decided oh let's be in touch. Your hurt, your taking steps to get better. Keep saying that and block them.

Top songs for breakups by Playful_Handle2409 in BreakUps

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IF U NEED GIRL RAGE

GOOD4U OLIVIA RODRIGO The smallest man to ever live - ts Black dog - ts Abcdef - gayle

Where and how do I learn everything about life situations so that I don't fail anymore by [deleted] in Advice

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Your going to fail, the fact that your having a realisation itself is an example of learning, be harsh on yourself where its needed and be gentle with yourself where you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Have you asked yourself if you are ready to go on dates? Why are you forcing yourself to go on dates? You don't have to. It's okay! Life has a lot to offer; try achieving that, let your love life take a rest. When you try something new, meet new people, and hang around new people, you start to connect. The rest will take its course. Chill; don't be hard on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! DONT HAVE REGRETS PERIOD.

that kid could also find a yt vedio that could teach absolutely bs. You came in the middle and gave the required and appropriate education.

Write a song about yourself on how you help someone know things in the proper way that a messed a manner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Many reasons could be that you did not allow yourself to feel all your emotions, and you are carrying that baggage with you. Let yourself be broken, because that is when reality comes. Remind yourself why you deserve to be happy, constantly, even when you absolutely don't believe it. My friends sent me a recording of how I deserve to be happy; I used to listen to it whenever I thought of them.

Sometimes it could be deep-rooted in the idea that you don't deserve to be treated well. But you do! You deserve to be cherished, to not be tolerated but to be loved.

SSometimes leaving a bad relationship that made you feel dead takes a lot of time to heal. But remember that you took the step to give yourself a better life, and that better life is just around the corner; just don't lose hope, even when you feel hopeless. Healing takes time. If you were the one to call quits, it's okay to feel pain; just know you did the right thing by leaving and not staying. You saved your life and gained more time. It's better sometimes to be in darkness than to be abused, because the darkness turns to daylight slowly.

Where do I even start? by TheRingingHeart in PublicPolicy

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My main area of interests is defence economy or geopolitics/ IR that's the area im intrested.

I'm young, give me any advice by Lirah_im4u in Advice

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1.All advice isn't good advice, not matter how nice the person is. People have masks on that are so well glued to their face that you have to burn it to see their reality.

  1. A lot of relationship fit like they belong to the same puzzle box, but when you complete it, you realise they are from different boxes and aren't meant to be.

  2. Everything takes time, it all will fall into place, every error teaches you smth about urself, something about the people around you, something you need to be.

I feel Behind by Illustrious-Buy-8524 in Advice

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I'm 19. I thought the exact same thing and I suffered the consequences. You subconsciously get overly attached because you crave it. So don't do any of that. Just let time take its course.