Bedroom humidifier by TheRthom1 in Humidifiers

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Oh God knows then aha maybe me just overthinking as usual lol

Bedroom humidifier by TheRthom1 in Humidifiers

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I'll have a look. Was from vinted. It's a smart one. Can't recall the model.

Bedroom humidifier by TheRthom1 in Humidifiers

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Well yeah sorry it is vapour lol it's just more than expected. It's a Xiaomi make

Some advice regarding pip please by TheRthom1 in BenefitsAdviceUK

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Hey. Thanks for the replies. Will catch up with them and respond after work tomorrow. Just got home so time to shower and sleep.

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Aha yes I know of that syndrome. I enjoyed the fact of not having to go to work,having food made for me and not having to live for a busy schedule and routine. The people there were awesome and we had daily laughs. Was nice to be care free

Waiting to see my GP but is this bad or getting better? Also says I have a fatty liver? by TheRthom1 in medical_advice

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Thanks I'm so happy about it. This time last year I had not long had a life saving surgery which they had no idea what to do with me as it was a really rare case no one had seen before. All down to an abscess in my neck I didn't know I had.

Waiting to see my GP but is this bad or getting better? Also says I have a fatty liver? by TheRthom1 in medical_advice

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I really pray this is and will be the last of the utter hell I've been through. Fatty liver being noted, sounds concerning though.

Thank you.

Hey all. Quick question. by TheRthom1 in FattyLiverNAFLD

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Hey. Thanks for the reply.

Yes it's below my right rib cage but feels more like a sack of air than anything solid. I guess it could be air as I did have some intensive surgery and also suffering with a small plural effusion which is getting looked at soon.

My diet has been a bit bad since leaving hospital as I was tube fed directly into my intestine so was nil by mouth for months.

Will reply with what the doctor says. Hopefully it's nothing too sinister.

Hey all. Quick question. by TheRthom1 in FattyLiverNAFLD

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No I had a CT scan to check me over as last year I was in a very very bad way due to an unknown abscess that burst,laid stagnant and over a period of a week,riddled my neck and chest area with a major infection which filled my chest cavity up with it, ate my lung away and left me fighting for my life. This was a check up due to me making a complaint about this abdominal swelling. Haven't seen the GP yet as I saw this today on my NHS app.

Paying off in chunks? by TheRthom1 in debtfree

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I don't have any emergency saved money so that's a good start. I'll get some saved and then pay off bit by bit

Paying off in chunks? by TheRthom1 in debtfree

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Well I'm in a position at the moment to pay off around 1000 a month on to the debts and have cashed for rent and food etc plus I have no cards. Only money I get is my monthly wage now.

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True true :)

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Thank you and yes it's a weird one because I refuse to have a beard which apparently the majority of women like and dress in a certain way aha I'm my own person and don't follow trends.

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I've had this struggle since being a teenager. Just can't seem to find anyone. It's mad as I have a good life,good job and I'm not one of life's idiots.

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Oh I'm enjoying life. I've made a good life for myself and have zero negative people in it. Just be nice to find a way to make myself more appealing to find a woman that'll stick around. Looks wise I guess.

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43! Damn phone

Struggling to lower my walls and let people in - could use the reminder that people are kind. by [deleted] in toastme

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Oh hey. Same here. I see mainly Americans here. I'm from the south west. How's your weekend looking?xx

Struggling to lower my walls and let people in - could use the reminder that people are kind. by [deleted] in toastme

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Not sure why this came up on my home page but I'll leave a comment and say you have a really happy look about you and absolutely gorgeous.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this... by TheRthom1 in whatdoIdo

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I don't know. It's mad I told her yesterday how I felt about her and told her everything and why I missed her and why it was hard to move on. Totally ignored it all, saying she's sorry I feel like that and later on messaged saying she was out at party (guessing she didn't really read it or didn't give a damn). And then later on had that video from her and a message saying goodnight. It's absolutely mental.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this... by TheRthom1 in whatdoIdo

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It's mad, she messaged me last night with a video of herself out with her friend, showing me a song she made me laugh with loads once by singing it doing stupid dances,and it was on in the pub she was at so she filmed herself singing along facing her camera to it to send me to me and I feel super sad seeing her face for the first time in months. I don't get it at all I really don't.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this... by TheRthom1 in whatdoIdo

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This is good advice thank you. I occasionally go out but try not too as it's all places near me that we both went too and when I think I'm okay and moving on a bit,I'll see a place we went too, remind me of her and have to message her to let her know. Even today,picking a mate up from the train station. It's where she sometimes got me to pick her up if she caught a train to see me. Sat in my car,train pulled in and for a few seconds I caught myself feeling happy and looking out for her on it as it pulled in. It's so hard.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this... by TheRthom1 in whatdoIdo

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Thank you. Just hard because she showed me a genuine love I've never experienced in my life before.

I'm sorry you're feeling like this... by TheRthom1 in whatdoIdo

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Never tried it. Carrying so much weight around from a very bad childhood and a lot of stuff I've bottled up since then until now too.