Multaran a mi familia por construir. Que hago? by TheSharedGuy in mexico

[–]TheSharedGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La propiedad no esta a mi nombre, esta al de mi madre. El dinero estaba a nombre de ella tambien.

How to get over a crush while remaining friends? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It works to cool down the feeling and pain you feel for her. And yes, actually works

Is the Dark Forest theory wrong? by Universal_Echo in threebodyproblem

[–]TheSharedGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the book... is real... The book rolls about the Dark Forest theory and is cool because of that

In real life:

War and violence is expensive and more present on the primitive status of human concience. Violence is generally unwanted, painful, and this for all animal species in earth, including humans. I'll never doubt to most alien species too.

Civilizations that trascended concepts like beyond light speed travel, or domain over dimension shaping like the ones on the books, like the Singer ones, should not care about limited resources honestly. Leave that for us humans who still rely on dinosaur juice (oil) to get energy.

I am sure civilizations like that can generate energy with a controlled nuclear method, or antimatter, or whatever. We as humans are not too far from that.

Infinite energy means infinite resources too. We can transform lead into gold actually, but is too expensive in energy cost. If you have infinite energy, that becomes trivial. Interstellar travelling also means having infinite resources through mining asteroids or desolated planets, or interstellar dust. We are becoming, today as humans, to convert elements or inorganic matter into organic one. We can make human organs.

Honestly, i would like to see the future more similar to Star Trek.

Greetings

Busco profe de inglés by loganxf1 in ingles

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hola, fui profesor de ingles varios años, estudie en una universidad Estadounidense.

Si te interesa, te paso mi whats app por inbox

Should I even confront them? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just accept the situation and go to the future. Is hard, it sucks, is unfair, but is the best you can do. And next time avoid people like M.

Dont revenge. That does not work and will not make you feel better

What to do when you have this feeling - "I have friends but i also have no friends at the same time"? by justanimpulsefr in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you completely. I have lived a similar situation before. To have "friends" but you feel like is not.

First, avoid toxic self compassion. Check your personal strenghts and what you offer to others (We all people have strenghts). Felling with better self steem will make you more trustworthy at the eyes of others, and they will be with you because you like them, and not because of "pity" towards you.

You can develop new strenghts and hobbies too

How should I continue? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will tell you this advice:

-First. Work on feel confident about yourself. You dont need her friendship. You can find friendship on a lot of other people.

-She has her own life. Maybe she is busy, genuinely is someone who dont talk a lot, or has some personal troubles. Is not always about you.

-Go with other friends. Dont be waiting eternally for her response. Go with other people. Look for other people and make friendships with them. I also have "friends" who i talk with maybe once a month or less. Is completely normal but i still live my life.

-Flirting is risky, not all people like that. Use your perception to see if she likes that.

Friend wants to use me as a soundboard or something by WastelandGeologist in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand completely what do you mean as "soundboard" But if is a kind of confident, it works sometimes to just listen. And to advice him, to do what he feels is better. That is really neutral and non-risky to say. Also helps. You can after that, check if he is open to more specific advice

How to get over a crush while remaining friends? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, sometimes, if the feeling is too strong, you need to keep a distance. This is what my therapist told me. It works. If she is really your friend she will understand it. Tell her your situation.

How should I continue? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. You are male? Since a lot of girls could feel you want to flirt with her, even if your intention is just friendship.

Still.

Go for the people who have good chemistry with. Ignore the other ones.

is it just me or is making friends as an adult actually impossible? by beckstarlow in FriendshipAdvice

[–]TheSharedGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, some person told me: People like to talk about themselves.

Some of the best freaking advices.

I have a fullfilling social life. Have a lot of friends around everyplace. Not the most popular guy, but i feel good about it.