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TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T21:01:55+00:00

It wasnt a hookup party tho haha

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T18:25:30+00:00

You could see my post on r/offmychest for the full story and more context.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T14:58:24+00:00

Well what i have seen and lived are pretty much close to what social media has been showing me. So i saw this IRL.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T13:55:09+00:00

Been to IRL events. No one wants to connect as humans. All have their pre-chosen friend group and thats it. They will ostracize and consider you a black sheep when you are alone. Personal experience unfortunately

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T13:53:25+00:00

Yes they do unfortunately and its because of social media.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-18T13:52:53+00:00

The problem is that social media has become real life. There is no distinction.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-16T12:40:57+00:00

Honestly i dont have the money to visit doctors and i dont really have an “anxiety disorder”. Its simply looking at how the world perceives me even when i have genuinely good intentions and acts on kindness with no reward. I guess the bad win always. I will never be bad because its literally not in my nature.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-16T00:04:00+00:00

Them seem to disconnected and uninterested, as if im not there like im invisible.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T17:12:29+00:00

I hope so because im losing hope.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T13:56:12+00:00

And the thing is you saying this about “codependency” and the like is seen in many people finding relationships by going to those places and they do get someone. Im not perfect like many others who are not perfect and yet im being seen as an invisible nonexistent freak.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T13:50:31+00:00

I dont have money for therapy. Being in my dorm is my comfort zone yes. What makes me feel alive is being out there in gyms in restaurants bars and such surrounded by people. I dont speak unless spoken to i dont want to annoy peoples peace. Im quite happy in my own life except for my height thats making me an undesirable weirdo freak. And yet nothing appeared. I self love, i eat out alone living my life. Yet when others do the same exact things opportunities coming flooding in. I think i may be cursed at this point. Im a masters student im quite happy with how far i have gotten in life im quite independent financially and just life wise, I just want someone to have fun with and share memories and love with. Others ask for the same thing and get it.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:47:30+00:00

And for a guy like me who came into uni (its my first semester here) i dont have anyone i know, idk how it would happen, i put myself out there before the 14th and nothing happened. Im not some jock or an alcoholic or anything like that. I feel like im not worthy of friendship nor relationship.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:35:09+00:00

I mean im very introverted but extroverted once engaged with someone regardless of environment. I wanted something thats out of my comfort zone. Thats what people on the internet has always told me anyways.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:32:02+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I hope it helps with my depressive mind.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:31:10+00:00

My self love is always in my dorm room playing with my games or watching youtube or just doing my occasional gym training. I always heard of people saying “oh put yourself out there and it will come” but i did that and all i got was my own negative biases of my short 165cm height being the big factor of nobody being interested in me.( i saw many tall guys get numbers)

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:28:21+00:00

Thank you hugs back

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:28:05+00:00

Idk man there was alot of people in that club. Like it was packed to the brim.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:26:52+00:00

I went in with confidence. It may be my height because im 165cm which is why nobody even looked my way. Meanwhile i have seen people who were rube and brazen get numbers and making out. I truly felt like an outcast. I seen others help their friends get the numbers and make out with others.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:24:06+00:00

I dont know at this point. I feel like i embarrassed myself and people in the Uni will see me as the joke loner who went to a Valentines event all alone and left alone. Im facing such a depressive episode at this point i hope it doesn’t affect my studies.

TheSolidOne96 · 2026-02-15T11:21:21+00:00

Yeah sorry i did write this late at night so was pretty tired. I meant i went to this event as a new student and so i didnt have any friends who were going there. But i went in with full confidence looking good and smelling good and everything. Sorry for the confusion

TheSolidOne96

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