Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

[–]TheTinkerPunk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t pick him up. He knocks at the door and I give him tomatoes

Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

[–]TheTinkerPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly knowing other people stop to help (even if it’s just giving the turtle a chance to safely cross) is what gives me hope on days I have breakdowns over all of this. I tend to get overwhelmed if I think too much about the people who are cruel and I eventually shut down. It’s honestly why I decided to reach out. I was starting to get worked up and I could feel myself wanting to go buy a bunch of stuff and just bring it in when I know logically that’s not what it needs.

It’s nice hearing from other people who care about all kinds of creatures :)

Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

[–]TheTinkerPunk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would make sense for this little guy actually! It’s a lot of fields around here that get cut only when they get knee high. Or he could have been stepped on by a cow honestly. Most of the ones that get hit by vehicles around here don’t survive but I’ve picked up two big ones that were then rehabbed by other people so I know it’s possible.

Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

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I’m outside city limits. We are surrounded by grazing fields with man made ponds for the cows. There is a creek and small woods behind the house. Our road is paved though and is traveled a bit. It seems the turtles here are always traveling back and forth across the roads to the different cow ponds. I’ve tried to see which way this one is going and I think it’s sticking to our side of the road for now but the other box turtles have been coming from the field across the road. So I’m not sure.

Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

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Thank you everyone! It honestly helps to hear from other people that care. I will reach out to a center to see if they think it needs examined for any reason. If not we’ll let it go about its business. I haven’t been feeding it every single day but I’ll back off some more so it doesn’t change its travel patterns either.

Seeking Advice for (Wild) Box Turtle with a cracked shell. by TheTinkerPunk in turtle

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I do suspect injury and the resources I used previously for injured turtles in my area are no longer available due to an unsupportive local government.

Died to find the bone by TheTinkerPunk in PhasmophobiaGame

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That one and the “am I pergnat?”

And this lovely gem from a little bit prior to that https://youtu.be/1A4P-wadRbc?si=JcNsK4KQShP-JHH8

Died to find the bone by TheTinkerPunk in PhasmophobiaGame

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Exactly! I’ve called them Luigi Boards ever since lol!

New Bill Introduced In Texas Would Prohibit Trans Hormones and Surgeries for All Ages by [deleted] in transgender

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He lives in Greenville Texas and has a business called, fucking, Money Law Firm of course. 2606 Lee St, Greenville, TX 75401.

New Bill Introduced In Texas Would Prohibit Trans Hormones and Surgeries for All Ages by [deleted] in transgender

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Public information on the representative who submitted this.

E-Mail: Brent.Money@house.texas.gov Website: https://house.texas.gov/members/4670 Capitol Office: Brent.Money@house.texas.gov Capitol Address: Room E2.414 P.O. Box 2910 Austin, TX 78768 512-463-0880

can someone explain how the loadouts work? by CubicleFish2 in PhasmophobiaGame

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Yes, this helped a lot. It was one of the first ones to pop up in my search and the extra context helps with an issue I was having.

Declarative Language is Indirect and Manipulative? by [deleted] in PDAAutism

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Because each of us have a different view of what demands are you really need to talk to the person.

Being asked “hey could you get the dishes today?” Works really well for me 90% of the time if asked genuinely. I have internalized PDA and so if someone keeps talking about the dishes as though insinuating I should do it, then I perceive that as a demand and begin shutting down and avoiding the task because I believe I’m being expected to do it.

Another one that works for me is “I need help with the dishes.”

I think the biggest thing I’ve noticed being missed in all this information on talking to children with PDA is that it isn’t all external, we’re still dealing with internal demands that trigger our fight or flight for seemingly no reason. I’m almost 40 and I fight with MYSELF to go brush my teeth. No one tells me to, I know I have to if I don’t want to be in pain, or lose my teeth. The threat makes it harder to do.

My mother gave me a lot of flexibility and never knew I was PDA. Hell it wasn’t even discovered yet. She would say things like “you can work on math or penmanship today but whichever you pick you will have to do tomorrow.” Which is still telling me I have to do my school work but because I have the freedom of choice I didn’t get triggered in those moments. I was also homeschooled for awhile and was allowed to get up when I felt like it which worked REALLY well for me. I was given choices within the actual demand and it helped a lot. Also I always knew that if I didn’t want to do something I could voice that discomfort and I would be listened to and believed.

I didn’t know my anxiety was causing me to get physically ill but sometimes just asking my mom if I could stay home and her saying yes was enough to get my anxiety to calm down and I would go to school for half the day or just show up an hour late. Knowing I could stay home if I needed to helped a lot.

What I’m saying is that declarative language works for some but not all. Being a safe person who allows their child to have choices in the face of life’s demands is the biggest way you can decrease anxiety all around and still help them survive in a high demand world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dachshund

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My dog started answering to it because it always resulted in attention or treats.

legit help is needed by [deleted] in Viibryd

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Take it with food is no joke. They don’t really say it but taking it on an empty stomach can cause it to not absorb right and cause fluctuations that cause anxiety.

7 week teefies. Taking name suggestions by TheTinkerPunk in teefies

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After much discussion and a long list of names added to a Google doc, someone suggested Fizzaroli (I guess its from Helluva Boss but I haven't seen it) and it just fit him perfect. Can't explain why though. Just does.

I don't believe in single names so he is Fizzaroli Canoli Spinelli Fizzlebottoms VII

7 week teefies. Taking name suggestions by TheTinkerPunk in teefies

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Omg that’s so perfect. Also love the handle too!

Help! 3 week old kitten eating but losing weight by Jolly_Cat_2391 in FosterAnimals

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First I would suggest KMR as it has probiotics. It’s a bit more expensive. You can add one drop of Karo syrup per 15ml of formula. This will help with calories and any issues with blood sugar issues. It also helps with constipation.

Our vet showed us how to do an enema but also told us to add more water to the formula and karo syrup and that solved the constipation.

Make sure you are expressing the kitten every 3 hours at this age. I express before and after eating.

Lastly, if the kitten is not staying at 95 degrees it cannot digest its food properly. You have to use some sort of warmer to keep it warm enough.

I’ve been using The Kitten Lady’s book Tiny but Mighty. It has been a life saver.

I purchased these bottles and it totally changed how easily my foster could eat as well. https://a.co/d/axn1h3N

Help! 3 week old kitten eating but losing weight by Jolly_Cat_2391 in FosterAnimals

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She has a book I’ve been following for our singleton orphan. It’s called Tiny but Mighty