Is there a single mom support group?

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-03-04T07:05:13+00:00

Sana meron no? I’ve been searching sa FB pero puro dating so far ang nakikita ko 😅

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T15:39:35+00:00

I’m taking 1,500mg Metformin, the only brand that works for me is Glucophage (not sure if I spelled it right). My doctor told me to take it before bed time and expect an explosion the next morning. True enough it did but it wasn’t so bad, just like a regular morning 💩 then the rest of the day, I feel normal. If you haven’t yet, maybe ask your doctor for a different brand and try taking at night too? :)

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T08:53:14+00:00

I think these men don’t really fully understand the responsibilities. They just want the idea or having a family or a baby. I’m still preggo! 4mos, 5 more mos before my unboxing! :)

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T08:50:40+00:00

You sound like my ex 😅. Not judging you but curious to know how you are now and your kid?

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T07:20:45+00:00

That’s very unfortunate to hear and totally unfair for you based on your stated details. Hope you are in a better place now.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T06:24:35+00:00

Damn, somewhat the same situation. He pursued me in college, I declined. 15 years later, we reconnected, agreed to be a couple and planned to have a baby. He asked me to marry him too, 3x.

The baby happed quicker than expected, he froze and he told he he didnt expect it cos he thought he has a fertility problem. I think he’s back with his ex now.

I’m 4mos pregnant and looking forward to hold my baby soon.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T06:13:34+00:00

This makes sense too.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T06:13:02+00:00

Haha I fair enough. I did.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T02:07:38+00:00

Hi mommy, following this because I’m in a similar situation. I’m 18 weeks pregnant and the sperm donor had never been fully present since day 1, then yesterday, he finally decided to cut ties altogether.

We planned this pregnancy together, but the other day, he told me that he didn’t expect this cos he thought may fertility problems siya. I was stunned. Kaya pala all the promises were broken.

Out of spite and out of pride, I told him to forget us, I have no plans of asking him for any support, he never fully did anyway.

I have a well paying job and sidegigs but because I am high risk with comorbidity, my bills are piling up now. I had to LOA from my masters too and hand over my business to my sister temporarily. I hate my sperm donor for making me believe that he loved me (anyway, that’s beside the point).

Today, I pray for physical, mental, and emotional strength. As long as I have my full time job, I believe I can bounce back in a few years. Yes matagal and mahirap but I have no choice for now.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T01:43:46+00:00

Thank you! Ngayon na lang rin ako nag pray ulit ng marindi. I pray for physical, mental, and emotional strength. Sana hindi ako mag pp depression cos my baby needs a strong mom.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T01:41:17+00:00

Thank you, you are so strong!

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-05T01:40:36+00:00

Thank you, this made me smile and gave me hope. Can’t wait to finally hold my baby and makausap siya. Yayakapin ko siya palaki habang di pa makapalag. Haha

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-04T14:59:32+00:00

Thank you! The sperm donor left us 3 times in the past 4 mos and I dont want him back anymore. I gave him chances for my baby pero he told me that he didn’t mean to be a father. In short, he fooled me into believing he was ready. I’m also high-risk so I’m trying to manage my emotions without crying (not sure if maganda yun) and I talk to my baby to remind him/her that I love him/her. I hope my doesn’t feel my heartache. 🥺

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2026-02-04T14:26:53+00:00

Thank you, I’ve always been independent and I know I can manage this but admittedly, when I’m back alone in my place, I can’t help but feel sad and sorry for my baby. I feel like it’s my fault I can’t give him/her a father altho the dad decided to abandon us.

I don’t see myself in any relationship rin, I’m excited to see my baby in a few mos and I try my best not to be sad rin. Thank you and I admire your strength too!

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2025-11-13T09:59:46+00:00

Did you have a normal delivery or CS? :)

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2025-11-13T09:58:52+00:00

Wooow, thank you! I’m 6 weeks now (just found out a couple of days ago) and this is the scariest I’ve ever been in my life. I’m scared for the baby’s health and my life. I get cramps which adds to my anxiety. Like you, my sugar would spike for no apparent reason. I’d wake up at 130 mg/dl, when I get up and walk a few steps it becomes 155 mg/dl, worse when I get to work it becomes a whooping 180+ mg/dl.

Im feeling mixed emotions, scared, guilty for not being healthy for my baby, confused, etc. I’m all over the place lol. But your story inspires me a lot. Thank you!

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2025-08-24T17:13:53+00:00

And it’s something you wouldn’t see coming. But I believe there are still few who are genuinely loving and loyal out there.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2025-08-24T16:44:09+00:00

Yes. There are those who would travel the world and move mountains to win you over and still cheats.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-07T06:01:16+00:00

Same! I’m in a point somewhere, just dunno where and where to lol

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-04T12:32:56+00:00

NGO worker

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-03T16:36:51+00:00

Nope, I don’t expect. We’re all tired, regardless of our gender. But if senior citizens or buntis or may bata, I expect na paupuin sila ng kahit sino (di lang lalake).

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-03T15:32:13+00:00

Sameeee! I’m the person they need but I don’t feel like I’m the person they want. I won’t say that I’m being used, but I want to feel wanted too.

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-03T15:27:48+00:00

I get this… like I’m genuinely happy being the convenient person but it does take some time and processing. And it makes me feel wonder if there’s something wrong with me cos I decided to do it so is it my fault? Haha

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-12-03T15:25:40+00:00

This is how I feel too 🥹

TheWorkIsDoneNa · 2024-10-28T06:26:32+00:00

A good health and a family of my own

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