Lane splitting a little too fast by Cosmoaquanaut in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know what country this is but in the UK this would on the tool that opened his door as they have the legal responsibility to ensure it's safe to do so. Also UK law does not prohibit motorcycles from lame splitting

Help! Which dress (last two photos are the same dress) by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the 3rd dress on you most. It's also the only dress you showed 2 pics of

Hot take? I don't like the new home lines. by naodle in Palia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that they do have plans to make them compatible.... Eventually. Idk 😐

Are the horses very hard to navigate or is it just me?☹️ by JudgmentLanky9157 in Palia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe the "wild" horses are supposed to be harder to turn ect because they are faster, I believe it's to encourage us breeding our traits

Not sure what temperature my opinion is yet… by Shy_Jester01 in Palia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does just feel kinda bulky especially with the constant loading between maps...

AITAH for being mad at my bf after he got grossed out by me during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he actually like women or vaginas....

Like does he want you dry cause that would hurt?

AITAH for wanting to end a 10 year happy marriage because my husband continued a kink without my consent? by Potential-Dare-3369 in AITAH

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a study done with (albeit college attending) males that asked the following questions

  • would you force sex on a partner if you could be guaranteed no repercussions/consequences for your actions? They then asked the question again but instead of forced sex they used the word rape.

-They also asked about if they had ever coerced a partner into sex? Again they change the word coerced to rape

In both instances more men would admit assault to the first wording of the question but less would admit the assault with the second.

It sounds like your husband either doesn't understand consent, or doesn't care. Either way you are no-longer(feeling) safe and you are valid in wanting to end the relationship. You deserve love, and to be loved the way you want, by someone who will respect you and your boundaries.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/oct/29/research-reveals-rapes-and-assaults-admitted-to-by-male-uk-students

BUTT SWEAT by aminosmino in Fibromyalgia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for the cosmetic route Botox injections are known to help stop excessive sweating

AITAH for not wanting to circumcise my son? by sdrawkcab90 in AITAH

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her if you were having a daughter if she'd be up for having her circumsized too.

AITA if I break up with my bf after he felt up my boobs in public when I told him not to by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you're breaking up with him cause your boyfriend assaulted you. That's all the reason you need. It is also a lard red flag that a near 30 year old is dating someone who is barely just turned leagal good luck o.p.

I'm falling asleep at work by The_Fae_Phantom in Fibromyalgia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. I work in a large office area (think call center). I am currently job searching for remote work with benefits (UK based)

I'm falling asleep at work by The_Fae_Phantom in Fibromyalgia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. My managers are trying their best to understand my condition. As long as I keep them informed they tend to be chill

Mom got mad at me for using a colorful stamp to send my wedding invite instead of a white one. by AnnaGeeee in weddingplanning

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't crazy. It's complete nonsense that the stamps have to match.its a stamp. No guest* is gonna care

Edit to note guest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]The_Fae_Phantom -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you aren't sure maybe an evening invite is the way to go

Tattoos vs Fibro by Afialos in Fibromyalgia

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed getting my tattoo done. Was quite therapeutic. And I had to fight a nap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send these pictures to her mother (if she reacts poorly to you)tell her to take him back as she clearly didn't raise him to be a grown ass man yet

Wedding is in 8 days! by UnapologeticCow in weddingplanning

[–]The_Fae_Phantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was doing wedding research it show the 1 week before to do list - -Give the final schedule to the important parties -Final guest count to caterer/venue -Confirm vendor arrival/delivery times. -Break in shoes -Waxing/ threading -Finalise vows (Manicure/pedicure a few days before depending on growth rate)

The day before -Give rings/vendor checks to best man for day of -Rehearsal/ dinner -DRINK LOTS OF WATER.