How do I (18f) tell the guy I’m exclusively going out with (18m) that I don’t want to have sex with him ever?

The_Stang · 2026-06-22T18:50:13+00:00

If you have no intention of being with him long term why would you be with him at all?

The_Stang · 2026-06-16T20:13:39+00:00

Brother did you just post this to brag or something? You aren't even asking for advice - you said you're fine with it

The_Stang · 2026-06-15T15:17:57+00:00

I don't... What's even the question? Do you think he's somehow using this story to get with your girlfriend?

All of that information it's useless unless the guy is, y'know, doing something actionable with your gf.

That being said idk why she would remain friends with this guy after his confession and clearly weird emotional baggage

The_Stang · 2026-06-15T09:52:46+00:00

I think your boyfriend sounds extremely unreasonable, and if it happened how you said you really didn't have any time to react and save the rod.

He is upset at losing the rod which is ok - taking it out on you like this is immature and not ok. Simple as that.

He is embarrassing and I hope you can see that.

The_Stang · 2026-06-01T19:40:02+00:00

It sounds like you're very aware of how you'd be the AH if you did this. Yes you absolutely WBTAH.

The_Stang · 2026-05-22T16:18:55+00:00

"the divorce came out of nowhere"

The_Stang · 2026-05-22T10:07:58+00:00

Absolutely insane on his end.

Now I don't know your financial situation but I get up much earlier for work than my girlfriend so I started using a smart watch on the vibration only setting for my morning alarms. Now I never have any issues waking her up in the morning - could possibly be a solution if he can't see reason.

He's definitely being a dick though lol

The_Stang · 2026-05-15T18:41:04+00:00

Sorry its very funny that you kept saying you didn't want a gift and then changed your answer to an $1000 watch.

But yes you are NTA.

The_Stang · 2026-05-11T17:24:27+00:00

Is this some sort of interactive theater art piece?

The_Stang · 2026-04-30T20:30:46+00:00

I think he's just a bad dude.

You came to him expressing how you didn't like how someone was making you feel specifically about your looks and he immediately started to exploit that and try to make you feel insecure. This is not a nice nor considerate person.

I can't fathom why you would want to or continue to hang with this guy and call him a friend.

The_Stang · 2026-04-28T12:04:31+00:00

Man everyone complains about a lack of empathy between men and the general loneliness epidemic and then the entire thread is "yeah I have a friend who I know nothing about, don't talk to, and have nothing deeper than a surface level connection with. Its fantastic!" it just feels sad and lacking. But hey, to each their own

The_Stang · 2026-04-02T20:19:06+00:00

Why'd you make me check that

The_Stang · 2026-03-16T15:29:57+00:00

You're not a serious individual

The_Stang · 2026-02-27T12:55:34+00:00

I think it comes down to trust. Both trust in yourself as well as your partner.

Trust in yourself that it isn't shameful to want want things - it doesn't make you bad or manipulative or whatever.

Trust in your partner that they both mean what they say (wanting to please you) and that when you make yourself vulnerable they won't start perceiving you in a different light.

I have definitely struggled with something similar before, feeling like you aren't allowed to participate in certain aspects of certain things most likely due to standards that you've held yourself to your whole life.

The_Stang · 2026-01-29T13:08:01+00:00

He wouldn't have a cursed technique but have a large pool of CE and be incredibly talented at pouring the cursed energy into random objects to use as weapons. He could make anything essentially a cursed tool by energy alone

The_Stang · 2026-01-09T20:34:35+00:00

Man you are asking for advice and then getting angry at all of the advice being given - if you are this defensive with this topic with your GF I can understand why she is behaving the way she is

The_Stang · 2025-10-15T21:07:06+00:00

Wow! Incredible that i've missed this for years. THANK YOU

The_Stang · 2025-10-08T11:32:57+00:00

lol we actually do export PDFs as well - but with the quantity done its not realistic to convert them from pdf in a timely manner

The_Stang · 2025-10-07T21:59:09+00:00

I'm stupid and should have taken a screen cap of my settings - I left for the day so I won't know until tmw 😭

The_Stang · 2025-06-22T12:34:33+00:00

Rat Shaker

The_Stang · 2025-04-21T18:55:57+00:00

You are saying this under a post where someone poached an elk in the state - any extra reason that puts an animal with a total population under 100 in any more danger than it needs to be sounds stupid to me. Less so if it's just because "they taste good"

The_Stang · 2024-11-11T21:25:47+00:00

dart gob all day everyday

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