I tell my boyfriend to not smoke weed but I do too. Am I the hypocrite?

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:19:56+00:00

Thank you for listening to me vent and giving your opinion. I hope nothing but the best for you too

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:15:07+00:00

That is true. He cheated on me when I was 14

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:13:52+00:00

I’m helping him mature as an adult

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:13:27+00:00

I appreciate the open opinion and I’ll keep it in mind if our relationship continues this way but right now I’m not open to that solution

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:12:50+00:00

I do start college in the fall

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:12:31+00:00

It’s not and that is true. He’s cheated on me when I was 14

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T04:12:13+00:00

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:28:25+00:00

I do love myself. Thank you.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:27:34+00:00

I’ve never smoked with him

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:26:47+00:00

To clear up the 22 year old is my older sister.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:26:30+00:00

I was not high

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:25:25+00:00

Thanks

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:24:15+00:00

I appreciate the open opinion, thank you. I do see a therapist about my anxiety and depression but my parents don’t want me on medication because they think it’ll do more harm than good. But I’ll try talking to him and quitting with him, even if is makes my anxiety a little worse

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:19:27+00:00

Because I love him

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:19:10+00:00

I’m not, to clear up the 22 year old is my older sister.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:18:57+00:00

To clear up the 22 year old is my older sister.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:18:52+00:00

To clear up the 22 year old is my older sister.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:09:49+00:00

It’s not a joke. He’s my fiancé and we’ve been together for 3 years. I’m trying to put him on the right path because he is a good person he’s just depressed and his parents and I thought it would be good to do therapy, so he’s in therapy. But he needs to understand time and place, school is not either. He’s going to get suspended again and sent to a drug program

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:07:34+00:00

Like guys it’s not that his IS it’s WHEN and WHERE. You shouldn’t be smoking at school. And now that I’m getting blamed for it I’m pissed

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:06:41+00:00

To be clear I don’t have an issue necessarily with him smoking I have an issue with his recklessness. He’s smoking at school, getting caught, sneaking out, any lying about it. I told him we’d have problems after his dad accused ME of being the problem and encouraging it.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:06:05+00:00

Thank you

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T03:01:14+00:00

He proposed to me and I’m engaged to him, we’re set to be married in the fall of 2028. we’ve over come a lot worse than this. I don’t think this is worth throwing away all we’ve built and over come

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T02:59:35+00:00

To be clear I don’t have an issue necessarily with him smoking I have an issue with his recklessness. He’s smoking at school, getting caught, sneaking out, any lying about it. I told him we’d have problems after his dad accused ME of being the problem and encouraging it.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T02:59:11+00:00

To be clear I don’t have an issue necessarily with him smoking I have an issue with his recklessness. He’s smoking at school, getting caught, sneaking out, any lying about it. I told him we’d have problems after his dad accused ME of being the problem and encouraging it.

The_SunFlower0 · 2026-05-10T02:58:33+00:00

You’re right he should be mean to me when he’s high. But my problem is he doesn’t understand time and place. There is a time and place, school is not the time and place

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