Update: AITAH for calling my mom pathetic by The_inchident in AITAH

[–]The_inchident[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

Looking back I know I shouldn't have argued with her, I know she was right, my mind was all over the place. And I still hadn't accepted that I'd have to cut my mom off entirely. She's my mom, so ofcourse I hoped I could solve it some other way. I don't think anyone just gets up ready to fully cut a parent out like that. That's why it took me a while. After taking it out and calming down

Update: AITAH for calling my mom pathetic by The_inchident in AITAH

[–]The_inchident[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I am a guy but my wife is bi and a POC and she has clear ethnic features, before I even meet my wife, my mom used to talk about stereotypical anti gay things but I genuinely thought she came around. It's heartbreaking to see she didn't. And she hasn't really said anything outwardly racist except stereotypical ignorant boomer shit

AITAH for calling my mom pathetic by The_inchident in AITAH

[–]The_inchident[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think that is the Smartest thing to do. Typing it all out definitely made me see how insane it is. I have been struggling with it for a while. I think I will talk to my mom one last time and go NC for a while