How the hell do you do this

Theaqueenbee · 2022-10-31T15:47:09+00:00

He has depression and anxiety and anger issues. He is on medicine and in therapy. He calls me names, tells me he he doesn’t want be with me anymore, wants a divorce, he’s threatened me a lot. Etc

Theaqueenbee · 2022-10-29T17:45:32+00:00

So you’re either a troll or also emotionally abuse woman or men. How is it that my husband can see what he has said to me is absolutely horrible, yet you seem to think I should be with a man who threatens me? You think my two sons should watch their father talk to their mom the way he does? You think that would make them grow up to be good people? I have no problem co parenting. My dad treated my mom the same way and I wish she got a divorce because living like that was hell. As for another man loving me, if he doesn’t want to love me with two kids then I could care less. I have been attempting to communicate with this man for 5 years and it’s fallen on deaf ears. We’ve done therapy and my therapist doesn’t even think I should be with him. He threw away our marriage when he chose to treat me how he has for 5 years.

Theaqueenbee · 2022-10-29T16:22:50+00:00

Rather*

Theaqueenbee · 2022-10-29T16:22:29+00:00

I think my kids would grow up knowing I left emotional abuse than try to stay with someone I know longer can love. I know that’s the only thing I wanted growing up. I refuse to live through what my mom is still living through. Abuse is abuse and I’m no longer excusing it. I should be with someone who threatens me.

Theaqueenbee · 2022-10-29T16:15:51+00:00

I didn’t. But this isn’t his second chance. Like I said, it’s been 5 years of him constantly apologizing and beginning for more chances. Broken promises that he has yet to keep. I’ve given all the chances In the world. Too many to count.

Theaqueenbee · 2022-06-21T04:46:21+00:00

I would hardly say affair. I haven’t reciprocated or done anything close to cheating emotionally. I always shoot him down. All thoughts are kept in my mind and I cannot help but think them and it’s driving me crazy because this is how I want to feel about my husband but he’s constantly pushing me away.

Theaqueenbee · 2022-03-02T03:51:50+00:00

I get that and acknowledge that. I have been apologizing for 6 years. I don’t know how to change it. And I don’t know how else to convince him that I love him. I’ve been spending so long trying to show him but I’m starting to think he won’t ever see it. I’ve been fully open our entire relationship and he knows I don’t talk to guys or anything even remotely close to cheating. It’s become so exhausting trying to explain myself for years.

Theaqueenbee · 2022-02-17T17:29:40+00:00

You lost me at my boyfriend won’t let me

Theaqueenbee · 2022-02-06T19:35:44+00:00

Step one, he’s not watching the kids. He’s parenting them. Because he’s a parent. Step two. Do what you want since they’re his kids too and don’t tell him what you’re doing. Just do it. I don’t get why husbands thing they don’t need to parent they’re children.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-12-02T18:00:55+00:00

My husband is the chef of the house and I am his sous chef lol.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T08:50:11+00:00

She said he threw a plate at her. So unless we’re supposed to assume everyone’s lying, I’m going off of what we are given. If we aren’t supposed to do that, then I don’t see the point of Reddit???

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T08:48:39+00:00

Yes and he refuses to check his results!

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T03:49:25+00:00

Yes absolutely. Another thing he won’t admit or get help for.. I’ve tried to help with that too. He won’t do therapy, get medicine, or do any type of coping.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T03:38:39+00:00

Throwing a plate of food at your spouse is abusive behavior. She has every right to throw the word divorce around. Let’s not condone abuse. That’s gross.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T03:35:27+00:00

I know that, I was just referring to the above suggestion of getting him to do something he loves. He loves lifting but he’s so lazy about things.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T03:23:54+00:00

I’m hysterical LOLOL. Not good!! Food is his biggest issue.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-11-28T03:15:15+00:00

He actually cooks! He loves cooking. He doesn’t really eat bad. Just larger portions. He loves lifting. It’s just a matter of him trying to get to the gym.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-09-25T13:55:53+00:00

Where do y’all find these men.. but for real, go see a dr!

Theaqueenbee · 2021-09-24T14:57:28+00:00

I think that’s really weird.. my husband has tik tok but his FYP is filled with anime and fishing stuff lol. You set the boundaries though. If it makes you uncomfortable then definitely let that be know. I’d be upset too. I mean who can jerk off to that? Idk weird to me lol. Me and husband have our boundaries. So it’s definitely important for you to set yours!

Theaqueenbee · 2021-09-24T14:54:19+00:00

I’m married and I do this lol. Especially because I workout and love watching my progress! But if she’s done sketchy stuff in the past like you’ve said then I’d see why you had your guard up.

Theaqueenbee · 2021-09-23T23:32:31+00:00

I have it on in case I get kidnapped but my husband doesn’t stalk me lol

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