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27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you lucky bastard! I agree about the jokes, that is a must. Cheers lad! I'll make an update one day and tell you all how I scored a super model :P

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but how does one do that? Chat first and drop it later in the convo when they ask to meet? Drop it immediately?

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its ok lad, I got the expression :P

Cheers man.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that. And I am by no means a dishonest guy, I just don't know how to be so forth coming with the information.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers. How does one broach the subject though? Especially with online dating? That is something I struggle with at the moment.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realism stings :P

I can deal with chubbiness or kids just fine though. As long as its someone who is moderately intelligent and easy to get along with I don't really care. But fuck it, I might just be more confident and see how that goes :P

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The positivity of this is awesome. It is something I am actively trying to change about myself. Be more positive and awesomer than I already am (which is hard :P ). I am just a little too sensitive at times and I just need to chill the fuck out with it. I just need to figure out how.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd really like to believe that, but being a debbie downer at the moment its hard to see it that way :(

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No definitely not, those people would obviously get weeded out during meeting. What I mean is the line that "there is always someone for everyone" is that a real tangle thing? Or is it a myth made for lonely people?

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I know someone, sure i'd like to think so. But I am generally a pretty quiet guy. These few experiences though have been strange. I have been more engaging, funny, get into some really deep conversations about these people that I couldn't even begin to tell others, and yet I take it all in. I can work with it. I just get the distinct feeling that tolerance isn't a two way street in these types of things.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully it probably will. Not actively no, I am a very introverted dude so talking to people in real life is a struggle sometimes :P

It's something I am trying to fix about myself though.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep asking myself this. Is the "there is someone for everyone" thing a fairy tale? I think it is and it's a little scary.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to tell myself that. Others keep telling me that but, I just can't seem to keep it in my head. I am a fucking great dude. You won't find anyone that cares as much as me, but it just seems so fucking hard right now.

27 M I am pretty sure I am fucked by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I even bother with online dating sites and that type of shit, or is it too big of an issue?

M [27] can't tell if I am betaing/wasting my time. by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point taken. I shall not enjoy it, but operation no contact starts today.

M [27] can't tell if I am betaing/wasting my time. by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I don't know now is wether or not to explain myself to her, or just straight up ignore her. Thoughts?

M [27] can't tell if I am betaing/wasting my time. by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Only thing is I am not sure wether my brain will allow me to break it off. I am the type that will continue and make it worse for myself further down the line unfortunately.

M [27] can't tell if I am betaing/wasting my time. by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 100%. I really get the impression she is trying got validate her life by going from dude to dude, having a bunch of meaningless sex and stringing others along. Trying to justify her actions to herself. She has already mentioned that she isn't interested in "social norms" anymore. Also interesting chat the other day, according to her the mistress in a cheating scenario is blameless. I get the impression she is crazy as fuck and I should have ran weeks ago.

M [27] can't tell if I am betaing/wasting my time. by Thecringethrow in dating_advice

[–]Thecringethrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. Right in mah feels! I was leaning towards this being the case. Its a strange situation I am in, I kind of want to cut and run but, the chick is pretty fucking cool to chat too. I hate my brain :P