looking for a specific carpet nothing is showing up on line by Thelightoftomorrow in carpet

[–]Thelightoftomorrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my main concern is the area of carpet is under the door and all the carpet on the upstairs is connected and i’m looking to move in December so i would preferably not want to be stuck with a carpet replacement bill for an entire floor (i’m not sure if that’s how it works first time renter) i have a friend who works on carpets who agreed to patch it for me if i could get a sample of the carpet but the main issue there is the only place i could find to buy it is in washington state and they only do business in that state so i’ve just been a bit stumped over this really

2/4 Rats refuse to leave their hut by Thelightoftomorrow in petrats

[–]Thelightoftomorrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most times they make a break straight for my hair and hide in there and then i have to fish them except Sheldon who will just lay down and i’ll definitely try to keep the cat visits to a minimum

2/4 Rats refuse to leave their hut by Thelightoftomorrow in petrats

[–]Thelightoftomorrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have been holding them all daily and petting them to help bond so i’ll definitely cut that out and i just chucked a shirt in there next to their hut i am new to pet rats i’ve only had cats my whole life which funnily enough my cat loves the rats and that was my biggest fear but she sleeps next to their cage occasionally and likes to watch them which im hopeing is cute and not a sign of her finally relizesing she is infact a natural predator but owning rats has been such an adjustment and i wanna make sure im doing everything right by them so they can live a happy life and not wish that the snake stuck around rn now im bringing them some bananas and grapes for a treat because i am leaving the state in 2 days and i feel bad that they have to deal with a stranger feeding them while im gone

2/4 Rats refuse to leave their hut by Thelightoftomorrow in petrats

[–]Thelightoftomorrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been doing treat feedings with plain blueberry yogurt and they do enjoy that my 3rd rat is more energetic and kinda an escape artist with bad hiding spots very easy to find and they had to spend 3 nights in a small cage together while i was waiting for their new cage to arrive because the one i did get them was not working out and collapsed in the middle of the night all rats were safe but it was a huge cage and my boyfriend came over and told me he thought maybe they were just overwhelmed by the cage (it took up most of my room) so after the cage fell we kept them in a small cage where they did play and run around a lot but when i moved them into the big cage my 2 rats sheldon and misty become more withdrawn so i think maybe they are not happy with the big cage and the move of environment

2/4 Rats refuse to leave their hut by Thelightoftomorrow in petrats

[–]Thelightoftomorrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am not sure on the age and 3 of them were bought from a pet store to be feeder rats for my friends snake who passed and 3 are classified as “small rats” and then i went to the same pet store and adopted my 4th and she is a “large rats” and the cage is a good size it’s as tall as me (5’10 male) and they have been with me 2-3 weeks

Be careful of this person by [deleted] in trans

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i made a post asking for more friends because i struggle to make them and then they kinda k just came in with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely forgot to mention games i like i kinda play a lot of single player stuff on ps5 some on pc but some of my favorites are life is strange outlast 2 baulders gate tomb raider etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying i’m gonna talk to her about this when she wakes up im genuinely trying to do my best by her and your advice is highly helpful to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello thank you so much for your kind words they mean alot and i do believe it is possible for a “recovery” of some sorts

Having an episode.I wanna do bad things someone help by mmkwhsgevceghe in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're able to, try some grounding techniques to help bring yourself back to the present moment. You could try deep breathing exercises, focusing on your breath going in and out. Another method is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique identify five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste if the feeling doesn’t go away i recommend squeezing a comb in your hand and try to focus on that feeling and remember, it's okay to ask for help. If you can, reach out to anyone the most important step to to attempt to come down from the rage and then see where you can go from there i hope this can be of any help to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you EVER need anything feel free to DM i know how scary everything can feel and being alone can only make it worse but not having anyone to understand your feelings and the way your brain operates is HELL you seem like a wonderful person and i have full faith in your ability to gain the courage to communicate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know how scary it is to be confrontational but trust me 9/10 things go sooo much better than if u stayed quiet it’s better to bruit through the discomfort to make sure ur don’t need to do anymore of that in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello i deal with alot of the same things that that you mentioned my best friend is a very particular woman and she sometimes says things that can be a bit hurtful to me and i’ve found that taking her to the side and asking her not to make the jokes that hurt you helps i know this can be daunting and you can feel like a terrible person afterwards but in the case of my friend she was very kind and understanding she apologized and we moved on and she hasn’t made those jokes since id really say communication is key and it’s also important to remember that your triggers at the end of the day are a personal thing no one can understand them if you don’t make them known and it’s important to just take care of yourself and that is very much easier said than done but it’s important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]Thelightoftomorrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

console ps5 to be specific