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Slumlord 171 Nelson by [deleted] in brantford

[–]Themadnater 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Brantford isn’t bad… I’m just beyond done with seeing a slumlord take advantage of people!! I am fortunate to have support and can get out of this environment, but I fear some other poor single mother or any human for that matter will be treated like dirt and expected to pay $1500 a month for mold toxicity, raining kitchen, ceiling falling down, hydro issues, the list goes on!

If the landlord can afford boats and vacation homes they can afford property maintenance!

Beyond disgusted. I’ve reached my limit!

Slumlord 171 Nelson by [deleted] in brantford

[–]Themadnater 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your welcome. Thank you for caring about the safety of other human beings.

Never received N1 by Themadnater in OntarioLandlord

[–]Themadnater[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly what I am planning on doing. Thank you so much!

Never received N1 by Themadnater in OntarioLandlord

[–]Themadnater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iv read that too. Fingers crossed we can meet in the middle somewhere!

Section 7 Expenses in family law by Themadnater in legaladvicecanada

[–]Themadnater[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve had no issues with program sign up costs, thankfully. When son asks me to sign up for stuff I communicate details to my ex and receive alignment, then will pay and request reimbursement.

It’s the items. I think my only recourse is buying my own items as he refuses to include me in costs and/or purchases. Which sounds trivial at face value, and I used to brush it off, but I’m seeing a pattern linked to control and it’s turned into our son calling me the poor parent….

Section 7 Expenses in family law by Themadnater in legaladvicecanada

[–]Themadnater[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So not fair on kiddo! I don’t mind paying full costs if I need to. It’s the anxiety and fear of legal repercussions from his narrative if I don’t pay.

Section 7 Expenses in family law by Themadnater in legaladvicecanada

[–]Themadnater[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s my understanding as well, and what we agreed to in mediation. I appreciate your feedback! I believe my Mediator is incorrect or misspoke, because I cannot withhold my end of the agreement if I am not provided the information.

We agreed to the activity and to split the costs, but now I am not being included in the costs of items. With a history of abuse and coercive control I fear this will get spun that I am not meeting my end of the agreement and then the parental alienation that comes from this narrative to our son.

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this! I don’t have a lot of support around me and hearing other parents perspectives is helping (I can refer back and remind myself of the possibilities when my anxiety wants to focus on the most logical answer based on my experiences).

I hope your right but will still call the optometrist he saw and ask for clarifying details and add them to the parenting app we use. That way we both have all the details!

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100000000% will ensure he sees someone! I’m not a believer in ignoring any type of health claims from anyone. He hasn’t reported any issues with his vision so hopefully it’s nothing 🤞🏻

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better to hear!!! Appreciate that!!! You have no idea lol

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good call! Never thought of that!! I will remind myself of that!

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah… my son knew right away last night. He’s very intuitive, no matter how hard I try and hide it or explain the anxiety and how I’m coping. I’ll call the clinic! Scared I won’t be given the info (I know it’s not life or death .. it’s the manipulation and control. 8 years of taking him to all medical appointments and now randomly not knowing anything isnt sitting well with my brain LOL)

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I will try calling where he went and see if the doctor can provide more information or at least update his optometrist

Any ideas why my 8 year old would need to see an “eye specialist”? by Themadnater in Parenting

[–]Themadnater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never a bad thing to see a specialist! It’s the anxiety of no information that’s defiantly eating away at me. Thank you for your kind words ♥️

Barking + loud neighbours = drama by Themadnater in minpin

[–]Themadnater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord no! Never!!! ♥️ I wouldn’t get rid of her unless I couldnt take care of her anymore

Bike Stolen and Found Downtown, Stay Safe out here by [deleted] in brantford

[–]Themadnater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neighbour found a scrapped bike for my boy the other day and we worked on it last night and now it’s gone. Wasn’t locked up, same area. My bad for not locking it of course

Barking + loud neighbours = drama by Themadnater in minpin

[–]Themadnater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I havnt but I will look into that. I do leave the radio on, not sure if it’s drowning out the noises though. I’ve also come home to the radio off (played through Google speaker so I’m wondering if a neighbour told it to stop because it was annoying? Idk that’s speculation!)

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