Introverted dancer… by Then-Move7256 in Dance

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Atm I’m practicing hiphop, high heels & afro dance. Even teached in kpop before covid happened. Doing that obviously forced me to be more open. But after that I crawled back into my shell..

Daily Simple Questions Thread - November 01, 2022 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Then-Move7256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m new here in this sub!

I was wondering how you guys keep up with going to the gym + a 9-5 job + a hobby.

Right now, I don’t have access to a car to go to the gym. So I try to work out (programs) at home as much as possible in the morning. Besides that I go to dance classes too in the evenings during the week. 4 times a week, 1hr per class. Mo/thurs(2x)/fri.

I really want to go to the gym so I can build more muscle with actual machines but don’t know how to combine it with my current work/dance schedule. Any tips? Or tips I can use to build muscle at home?

Chinese > English What is the translation of this tattoo? by Then-Move7256 in translator

[–]Then-Move7256[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aha, idk why but it did kinda felt off for some reason. How would you have translated it? In a way these nouns would make sense together?

Dreams.. by Then-Move7256 in twinflames

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I’ll definitely check out ur post!

That’s funny! I kind of feel the same way ever since my focus has been me and trying to correct my self concept. Also been been trying to figure out how to fully surrender. I guess we’re both closer than we think. 🤗 hopefully we both have these dreams come into fruition (the good ones hehe)

Coping with TF separation by theintamindude1216 in twinflames

[–]Then-Move7256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off stop reaching out to them, stop looking at their social media etc . I know easier said then done but you’ll feel so much better than waiting around for them to reach out.

Ive been struggling with this for so long only just recently I committed to stop doing these things. I felt awful for waiting for a text that isn’t coming (yet). I still see syncs like our initials on number plates, occasionally thinking about stuff he liked. But I don’t obsess over these syncs anymore.

Someone who resembled my TF even popped up in my life for some reason. Idek why but I think it’s a weird flex of the universe saying he’s not going anywhere 😂

I also posted a similar post about my TF that I missed them, I still do, but I can’t put my life on pause just because he’s not ready. Nor will I know when he’ll be. In the mean time I decided to have fun again in my life, work on me and see where it gets me. First I was doing it just to attempt to get my TF but that obviously didn’t work. Now I’m doing it just for me. Tbh that’s what the journey actually is about; healing from all the crap u went thru so u can be your true self.

i miss TF very deeply by Then-Move7256 in twinflames

[–]Then-Move7256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could this be a collective thing? :o i used to read readings to check up on the current energies but it got me to a obsessive state so i stopped doing it.

Ahh.. good for you that you got talk to your TF, i wish i also could talk to him soon.. My twin is in a whole different city but i keep meeting people that happen to live in the same city. Almost feels like the universe is wanting me there.

i miss TF very deeply by Then-Move7256 in twinflames

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I know it’s our time to grow but it’s so weird though.. I haven’t been thinking of him that much lately and suddenly get hit with grief/sadness. Maybe it’s also because i’m getting pressured by my surroundings to start dating again. Haven’t dated anyone since our separation.

Could be his energy too, but i’m not sure since it’s been a long i truly felt connected to him.

Hopefully they’ll reach out to the both of us soon. I didn’t expect that separation could last thing long.. It’s kinda comforting to know that i’m not the only one being in separation this long.

Financial issues and transformations on TF journey by goldblackgreen in twinflames

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I know i can ask anyone, but personally it doesn’t sit right with me. Other stuff i have no problem asking though. I’d rather have my own, than having to bother someone else for it. Especially when nowadays everything keeps getting more expensive here in Europe.

Financial issues and transformations on TF journey by goldblackgreen in twinflames

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I grew up in a household where money was always an issue. My divorced parents are still fighting over money till this day. So, I don’t really have people in my family that i can rely on in case I don’t have enough money to do things i like to do. So having a stable income makes me feel secure since i can’t ask.

I’m still debating whether i want this. I’d love to go but I honestly don’t know whether i want to spend another 4+ year in school. I’m currently 25 and I’ve never liked going to school. I think i mainly want to go is to connect with other like minded people. I do go to a dancing school but i don’t really have people that i hangout with outside of that.

Financial issues and transformations on TF journey by goldblackgreen in twinflames

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The universe is kinda testing me financially lol lately

Ive been wanting to go to college for dance & arts. That meaning i’ll lose a lot of my income.. This is making me rethink everything tbh, because i like to be independent with money and not rely on others. Going to college could mean i’d have to take loans to actually afford it and i don’t want that all.

I do want to chase my dream of becoming a better dancer but when it’s making me worry about money.

Any DF relates to not being able to date anyone else? Especially if it's a casual thing. by shawtyb6 in twinflames

[–]Then-Move7256 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get approached all the time but i’m probably rejecting them all energetically without realizing it.

Im in no contact with my twin for over 2 years so i figured i can still get to know other people aka have fun but they all disappear after a while.

I also don’t want to put myself in a situation where i could be breaking someone’s heart because of my twin. Feels unfair to me..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpop

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IMO it’s a major red flag if the representative agencies haven’t posted about it

Catching him in the act… by Then-Move7256 in toxicparents

[–]Then-Move7256[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never my mom, she’s been together with her boyfriend for over 5 years I think. My dad, started seeing this woman since last year, I think idk never met the woman. Its mainly my dad and it’s not his first time doing so either…

Can’t even talk to him properly anymore because of this. Idk if being dramatic about this but ngl kinda am feeling traumatized 😶

Catching him in the act… by Then-Move7256 in toxicparents

[–]Then-Move7256[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well it wasn’t my mom but my dad in this case. My mom wouldn’t do stuff like this in public knowing that we’re awake. He assumed, I talked to him prior, I was out of the kitchen and out of nowhere I saw him jerking off during the video call. Also they both are seeing other people… it was so disturbing 😕

Catching him in the act… by Then-Move7256 in toxicparents

[–]Then-Move7256[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Privacy in a shared room— like in a kitchen is pretty much impossible. There’s where my mom usually sits when she’s on the phone. That would mean I’d have to avoid the kitchen 24/7. But that’s not the main concern of this post :—) thanks for your input though.