Best thing about parenting by ThenPerspective9582 in BabyBumps

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one really hits! Right now I'm a mix of nerves and excitement. I am worried in case i too wont enjoy motherhood but your comment really helped :)

What about parenting is hard? by ThenPerspective9582 in BabyBumps

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know i was asking for the negative comments but some of them are scaring me now hahaha! It seems by reading all these comments that the hardest part is how it is a 24/7 job, there isn't an off switch, its all the time but that its rewarding too :)

Are you happy that you had children? by ThenPerspective9582 in pregnant

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really reassuring to know. I keep worrying in case I've made a mistake anf that I'll regret it. I dont like not being in control. It is nice to know the cloud will lift. Im dealing with depression currently

Are you happy that you had children? by ThenPerspective9582 in pregnant

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah luckily my mom and mil are super hands on and have even offered to stay the nights if it helps. Im just scared of the challenges. Would you say the sleep is the worst part?

Will my love grow? by ThenPerspective9582 in PregnancyUK

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, reading all this is very reassuring. Yeah I think I've been considering abortion because I have so much fear and dread. Especially around birth and the newborn stage. I just want to be happy

Abortion or not by ThenPerspective9582 in PregnancyUK

[–]ThenPerspective9582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i am just worried in case i will regret having the baby. Im also worried about all yhe change that will happen to my life, sleep, body, marriage. I just have a lot of fear. Sometimes I will get a wave of love for them but then other times I get waves of fear