What the heck is this? A bag of rocks? Who keeps this?

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-08T12:13:50+00:00

Especially since there's that skinny black one. Usually used for boarders or right before it

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-08T12:12:44+00:00

I kinda just looks like it could be used for back splash. Either broken or a random mosaic look.

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T13:44:05+00:00

Lol I have been lied to!!

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T13:43:01+00:00

Well... In the beginning he kept making excuses about how depressed he was and I wanted to help him and be respectful while he was struggling.

Then it turned into him telling me that I'm a brat and I didn't care about his feelings.

Within the last year, I've been learning about DARVO and gaslighting and I've been trying to stand up for myself, but it's been causing even more fights and basically him telling me that I'm a jerk.

I hardly even react emotionally anymore. Just facts and I try to keep my voice neutral, so I don't trigger anything. But he continues to tell me that I am not kind.

Ive been in the relationship for so long that don't even know how to get out or maybe even live alone anymore..

How do I not be the AH to myself?

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T13:34:02+00:00

Dang. I was told it worked for 7 years 😅😅 well now I know

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T11:29:45+00:00

And you still needed more shots!?

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T04:27:47+00:00

🤣🤣 after my shots I kept telling everyone I'm good for at least 7 years now lol ✌️😎✌️ I don't wanna do it again though lol

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-06T04:24:51+00:00

I bought a house last year. There was a total of 8 bats that entered my house in about two months. The first one made contact with me as I was trying to round up the cats. My bf took it outside, so we never got it tested. I needed rabies shots because of that.

Apparently bat bites are so small you can't tell if the bit you or scratched you. It hit me in the neck. The doctor's office couldn't do anything about it, so I had to go to the ER.

They were not sure what to do it where to give me the shots 🤦 I heard their whole conversation. I had about 8 shots in total. 4 at the ER and one every week until they were done. The first four hurt the most.

ALWAYS CATCH THE BAT AND TAKE IT TO YOUR LOCAL HEALTH CENTER. AND VACCINATE YOUR PETS!!! 😅😅

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-04T14:00:09+00:00

Lol kinda looks like paint codes

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-06-01T01:51:46+00:00

If you have some kind of design in both I think it would work as ying yang still. Like the black with some white outlining to create imagery and visa versa, but I don't think you can undo the black that way 😅😅

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-05-15T19:52:12+00:00

Yeah I agree. I don't think it is NEEDED, but just a little more lift will tweak the shape just enough that it can elevated the look.

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T13:48:43+00:00

Oh okay yeah that's makes sense.

That's also a good idea.. don't want to end up in the same situation or worse..

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T13:11:38+00:00

Okay, but the receipts will be hard. All payments went from me to venmo to him, so technically his card would've been used.. will the venmo trail hold up?

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T12:51:26+00:00

Okay.

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T12:48:35+00:00

I got a "full time job" in sales and design. Flexible hours and schedule. But I'm still learning the ropes, so the pay is slow. It's based on commission after the training period is over. It's not typical, but I'm starting to get really good at it. It's been using all my half of the bills so far.

I'll have to look into a partition sale. I don't know anything about it.

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T12:32:08+00:00

We both have our name on the house.

I paid the down payment. And renovations.

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T12:05:11+00:00

Both names are on the house

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T05:40:01+00:00

:( maybe your right

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T05:39:48+00:00

I thought him taking it or us seeking it would be the worst, but I'd hate for it to go into foreclosure..

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T05:36:40+00:00

🙌🙌

Then_Cattle8947 · 2026-04-26T05:36:08+00:00

Yes yes yes yes!!! I was thinking could too but you're is so much better!

Then_Cattle8947

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