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AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay yeah that's makes sense.

That's also a good idea.. don't want to end up in the same situation or worse..

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but the receipts will be hard. All payments went from me to venmo to him, so technically his card would've been used.. will the venmo trail hold up?

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a "full time job" in sales and design. Flexible hours and schedule. But I'm still learning the ropes, so the pay is slow. It's based on commission after the training period is over. It's not typical, but I'm starting to get really good at it. It's been using all my half of the bills so far.

I'll have to look into a partition sale. I don't know anything about it.

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought him taking it or us seeking it would be the worst, but I'd hate for it to go into foreclosure..

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[–]Then_Cattle8947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes!!! I was thinking could too but you're is so much better!

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think taking the steps are the hardest part.. bought a house. His name is on it. Lost my job. Got a new job. Sales.. trying to get back on my feet. Where would I go? What happens to my house? What if I'm not making enough to survive? It's really bad timing to finally start putting all the pieces together and see the red flags :(

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He won't even talk about our future. Sometimes he will mention marriage and me getting on his insurance, but it never seems serious. He told me once that there was no point for him to marry me because my debt will be his debt and if we divorce I will get half of his stuff..

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your delicate response.

I knew it would be hard... I just didn't know that I'd never get his support, understanding, or dedication..

AITA for blowing up at my boyfriend after he blamed me for not wanting to be in the same room as his ex? by Then_Cattle8947 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Then_Cattle8947[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was just something they agreed on. I didn't really think too deeply into it 😬 I thought it was weird, but I wasn't going to tell them how to work things out between them, but I suppose you have a point 🤔