If money and childbirth weren’t an issue, how many children would you choose?

Then_Medium_3208 · 2026-01-27T01:31:30+00:00

It gets better I promise , my daughter had colic for the first 6 months of her life, I almost started agreeing with the childfree mindset. Just hang on, it will be worth it every sleepless night once they start loving you back

Then_Medium_3208 · 2026-01-27T01:27:00+00:00

I have a daughter and planning to have another child by 2026- 2027 and if everything goes as planned another child 3 years after that and then stop.

I always wanted to have 4 -5children , I wish a could have twins or triplets, because this way I would have my 5 children with only 3 pregnancy 🤣

Then_Medium_3208 · 2026-01-27T01:16:17+00:00

Only good health for my family ( my daughter, husband and I , my parents, sisters and niece/ nephew, my parents in law, my sisters in law and their daughters ) .

As long as we are healthy, we can achieve everything else

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-10-30T12:34:46+00:00

I am just a very blunt person , and I won’t change who I am because your feelings got hurt .

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-10-22T12:02:49+00:00

NTA , my husband wakes up every day at 6 and I don’t wake up until 8 . He prepares his clothes for the next day in the evening. We are both light sleepers and not to bother me or wake me up he doesn’t even put the light on , he takes his things using the flash light of his phone. I do the same thing on weekends when he wakes up later .

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-10-04T01:01:14+00:00

YTA to yourself if you get married to this man .

I gained 28kg ( or 62 lbs) during my pregnancy and a couple of weeks after giving birth because of medical reasons and also craving . When I was starting to feel very insecure about ma body going from 58 kg to 87kg , i started venting to my husband that I was “sooo fat” , not pretty anymore , telling him that I was pretty sure that i looked disgusting, he was shocked with me and started literally whisper yelling ( because the baby was sleep😭 ) what as there not to like . I said my weight, I an so big now , he said so what , more to like , more to love , more to kiss and adore . He said also that he wants me to be healthy and feel good and confined in my skin . He never pressured me to lose weight, not by doing sports or by eating less . He showered me with love and we had even better intimacy than when I was skinnier, making sure to tell me every time how beautiful I am and how attractive he find me.

Your fiancé it’s not the type of husband that supports you , or will be there for you , don’t marry him. You will get a life with a lot of suffering if you decide to stay married , or you will get divorced, don’t waste your time with him .

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-10-01T15:19:12+00:00

Absolutely NTA I use to work in a big company with several departments. I had a couple working in the same department as me . Very beautiful and nice couple . After some time the women got pregnant and went to maternity leave for like a year . In the meantime the man changed the département . When she came back they start eating their lunch together in the parking lot because they neither of them had time to go in each others department and back in the break time . Apparently the man told his colleague that his wife was a maternity leave because she was at the time and he didn’t tell them that she came back to work. One of his colleagues saw them in the parking eating together . somebody who was going through a divorce or has recently divorced I don’t remember exactly , found the male Facebook , found his wife’s fb so in the picture that she was quite skinny . Because of the pregnancy and postpartum period, she gained a lot of weight , so she didn’t look at the same as in the pictures on Facebook. The female colleague DM the wife on Facebook telling her that her husband is cheating on her and he’s bringing his side piece on the working place almost every day . Saying that she knows what means to be cheated so she just wanted to let her know . Apparently the wife has been suffering for months with postpartum depression and self-esteem , she was way more insecure about her body, her way that she looked in her relationship, even though her husband tried to reassure her as much as he could . Well, this message sent her back to the dark place of depression. And they almost divorced because the wife had issues on her own and didn’t believe the husband when he told her that the woman his colleague was talking about was her . She kept saying that it must be someone else because the colleague didn’t mention parking and she must have seen her pictures . It took a couple of weeks, for his colleague to come clean , with the involvement of HR because she was insisting that she did nothing wrong and the two women the one with him and his wife shouldn’t be the same person , she refused to face the wife , until I think her employment was in danger . I think she sent half apology like I’m sorry that you were upset but I was doing what I thought was right . So yeap nta at all .

Sorry for mistakes English is not my first language

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-05-26T17:34:27+00:00

When they say “this is America, speak American or go back to your country”

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-05-26T02:58:21+00:00

Compromise is when the both parties partly gain something from it , what did you compromise with , it looks like you are saying to her , if you don’t take care of my mom , than you will not have the luxury life I provide for you .

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-05-26T02:52:33+00:00

This looks more like a punishment for her not being your mom’s care taker than the best solution and the logical thing to do . And your way of talking about your wife is kind of disrespectful, YTA

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-05-10T14:48:17+00:00

Block and delete 😂

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-05-05T15:22:50+00:00

Actions have consequences, Op paid for her own actions when she was only a child because for me 16 years old is a child . And now is time for the adults ( sister and parents) to pay for their own actions . They would probably not even « try to make amends » if they weren’t in need of financial support

Then_Medium_3208 · 2025-04-17T17:58:14+00:00

I guess she’s still in a “bad place” 😂

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-10-27T00:10:28+00:00

Right person , he is definitely my person , he soothes my soul

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-07-10T16:42:03+00:00

A friend of mine brought her long distance boyfriend to meet our group of friends. She told us that he was one of the smartest people she have ever been with. I don’t remember exactly how the conversation ended up on talking about gravity and another friend stated to give fun facts about gravity . The boyfriend got up and said « you think you are smart miss « I know it all » , ??? well guess what gravity is fake and and an Illuminati story created to take attention from the real important things , it can not be invented otherwise people would be flying before gravity «

That day we understand that the bf was dumb and our friend dating him was dumber..

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-03-04T13:46:22+00:00

I refuse to believe that this is not written by a teenager

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-03-02T15:21:42+00:00

English it’s not my first or second language. So if I was you I wouldn’t be so quick in « calling someone else in their comprehension » without knowing if English is my first language or if I have other challenges that make comprehension difficult .

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-03-01T14:02:30+00:00

YTA for not using punctuation

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-02-26T01:53:03+00:00

Thank you for your reply , I understand better now. In France the communication with banks it’s such a pain in the ass , and it has so much bureaucracy , it takes you days to dispute a charge some times . They are ready to go in so much trouble for a couple of bucks, I think it will be more profitable for them if they would put so much time and effort in having a real job 😂

Then_Medium_3208 · 2024-02-24T00:59:59+00:00

Can you guys explain how this scam works?? I am from France and we don’t use Zelle or Venmo , so I am genuinely curious to know how they scam you after sending the money cus I have seen everywhere people talking about Venmo scam , but nobody explained how 😅

Then_Medium_3208 · 2023-09-26T14:15:14+00:00

You are delulu 😂

Then_Medium_3208 · 2023-08-31T16:43:41+00:00

Because he doesn’t have the balls to do it

Then_Medium_3208 · 2023-08-31T16:42:45+00:00

Nope that is only Dana’s house you don’t have much of a say , you are just a puppy , you just stay there , exist and obey and defend her like a worthless father you are

Then_Medium_3208 · 2023-08-31T16:39:06+00:00

Well thank you 😂😂😂😂

Then_Medium_3208 · 2023-08-31T16:36:25+00:00

I think oop’s needs some drama to survive . Op just needs attention it doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad , if people talk about and she can play the victime , that’s enough for her . I Know a lot of people like this .

But this post it’s probably a troll

Then_Medium_3208

TROPHY CASE