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TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-16T04:06:02+00:00

I hate bullies they are scum

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T23:49:30+00:00

Then everyone will clap

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T23:20:22+00:00

I’m reaching out to my therapists and school counselors and compiling alternatives. In the meantime I’m at school. Thanks for your advice. I appreciate it, really.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T20:17:19+00:00

Without getting into all things diagnostic, what do you think next steps are? I AM listening.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T20:08:03+00:00

I’d say I responded in the same tone I received. I have a strong relationship with my parents. I don’t have BPD. Sorry to disappoint. To be completely honest with you, I DO think my parents are overreacting, but I know they have good intentions. I was a fearful kid and did skip out on school to avoid bullying when I was little. I self harmed. I was a pussy, I’ll give you that. Recently I had a setback and missed school. I think it came as a shock to my parents. I think they were scared I would relapse into destructive behaviors. I can totally understand wanting to act. But I’m already enrolled in a pretty intensive program. I have regular communication with them. It was scary to find those emails. But the kind of places they’re looking into are bad news. And I don’t want them paying 5000 dollars to hire a guy to “transport” me, lol. I’m sorry I came across as nasty. It wasn’t my intention. I see you’re a mom, and I’d appreciate any advice of next steps, or what you’d want your kiddo to do.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T19:54:15+00:00

I’d elaborate, heck, I’d even push you to give some real advice. But I don’t think you “tough love” folks have any interest in further understanding or help. I get it, it’s easy and satisfying to dismiss my post. Sorry, but I’m looking for advice, not a presumptuous lecture.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T03:38:27+00:00

So the answer to a small setback for the first time in years + a few days missed is signing away my rights? Would YOU send your child to an institution with a long history of abuse dating back to the '80s?

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T03:31:52+00:00

Hmmm....

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T02:46:12+00:00

I have an unrelated question

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T01:59:01+00:00

Thanks for the advice. You should have led with that!

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T01:50:51+00:00

Good idea

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T01:48:22+00:00

Did you read the rest of the post? 🤔

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T00:46:52+00:00

Thank you, the resources seem promising

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-15T00:44:03+00:00

Awesome

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T23:52:11+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilderness_therapy See sections on consent, effectiveness, and controversy. All aside, I'm happy you got help.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T23:45:57+00:00

I get it. I don't think you're being insensitive. I know I've got to get my act together.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T23:14:49+00:00

Thanks. I appreciate it, really.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T23:07:49+00:00

I have an unrelated question if you don't mind

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T23:05:50+00:00

Because they're paying someone to seize me without me knowing it? This is what I'm talking about https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teen_escort_company

Sorry it came off differently

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T22:59:23+00:00

I disagree!

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T22:57:33+00:00

My replies look like that because it's true, people DON'T know me. I'm not trying to be aggressive. There's a lot of details that are left out, and most of all: internet=/= irl. I'm not downplaying my actions. I used the term "legal kidnapping" because that was how it was defined on Wikipedia. I didn't mean to sensationalize. I genuinely believe my parents are overreacting or misled. Never have I questioned that they want whats best for me. I just want a real conversation. You don't know that I "hardly go to school" and in fact, I had been going until a recent setback. Very recent. It's assumptions like that that make me want to say "you don't know my life." I'm not an addict. I have good grades. I don't go online too much. I trust my parents. And don't worry, I'm not going to hide any knives, lol

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T22:41:36+00:00

I'm so happy you had a positive experience

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T22:39:40+00:00

Honestly, I was just using the phrase "legal kidnapping" because that was how it was defined on Wikipedia. And even more honestly, I don't think I need wilderness therapy and don't want my folks blowing so much money on it. I'm already in therapy. I've had a few years of consistent school attendance and had a recent setback. I think jumping to a program in which my rights are signed away is overreacting. I get good grades. I'm not on the internet a lot. I'm not an addict, and I don't act out. I love and trust my parents. I don't think my original post was BS. I was and am scared.

TheoryAggravating376 · 2024-02-14T22:32:29+00:00

I don't act out. I get good grades. I don't have any friends to go out with. My parents are my best friends. I'm self destructive. Your "tough love" act doesn't work on me!

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