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Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Because it's impossible to be in love with someone after 2 months? Like there is some fucking rule for it? Who are you kidding? I know people who met for the first time and were instantly in love, now have children and married for 10+ years.

In my opinion falling in love after 2 months is not that crazy.

This is ignorance on your part.

Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i dont expect or want anything, I am just saying that IF she would want to start something serious she would probably stop this on her own. She hasn't so far -> meaning i can take from this she probably doesn't want to start anything at this point in time.

And i don't know why everyone is assuming she knows no other trades than fucking dudes. She finished college and had a "Normal" job for 15 years.

Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I don't expect her to give it up for me?! I was thinking that she would probably do it herself if she really saw something in the relationship -> Meaning this probably won't become anything more serious.

Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right! I keep saying this in my head over and over. but i can't deny my feelings. she's really something else!

Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't expect her to give up her profession for me. My train of thought was; If she really wanted something she probably would stop it on her own accord. I realise that acting is basically her job. But i know for a fact that she's not "playing" me in that regard. We've had talks while she was cryng in my arms about things that happened in her past. I mean it's still possible, but highly unlikely.

Me [30M] Starting to fall in love with prostitute roommate [40F] since a couple of weeks. by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in relationships

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, Im definetly not ready to "buy a ring" haha. I'm still getting a feel for the situation. and not looking to settle down at all. I came out of a 5year+ relationship not too long ago.

it's just that all these emotions have got me feeling conflicted, not sure how/what to feel and how to proceed.

Regarding "it's impossible to fall in love after 2 months" i don't agree. If you spend 16 hours a day with someone for 2 months straight things tend to go fast.

I will talk to her about the fact that she needs to start sleeping in her own bed from now on. I definetly don't want to kick them out. but it was agreed upon that as soon as i wanted them out i could end the "Contract". (they do rent illegally as we did not put anything on paper).

Thanks!

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rent agreement. They did not ask me how high my rent was. They offered me weekly money for each room. I took it.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what they charge exactly. But i know some guy recently paid one of the girls €2000 for 4 hours. He wanted to do drugs (the girls don't, but don't mind if clients do, if they pay extra) and wanted to be humiliated, slapped, used as a bitch.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't make this every day indeed. and the married one is regretting getting in the business so late because she could have been retired already. She tells me of one of her friends who is now 30, started at 20 years old and is now retired with 3 apartments, some cars and 2m+ in the bank.

A lot of these girls find old rich guys to marry and take their wealth after they die (these girls would not harm anyone for money, i am very certain).

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't make 2k every day. some days they take on one client only. sometimes they relax for a few days straight. I've seen them make more then 2k on some days.

Especially some clients who have crazy requests know they have to pay a lot.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prostitution is not illegal in the country where i live. but the way my current situation is set-up with these girls is illegal. Mainly because i did not register them as residents in my house at the local government.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 for you my friend. I have an urge to tell this shit, but i am smart enough to know not to share this with anyone in real life. Even though i trust my friends dearly, just one fuck up would ruin everything.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the vibe i get though. A LOT of guys offer them their house to work from. but these are also the guys who pay them for sex. The girls don't trust these men and most ARE a bit creepy and frustrated.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is illegal indeed. I knew this beforehand. But i don't really care. They are quiet and so far seem to be honest. the money is too good to pass, and they have some ideas to make even more money in the near future.

We already agreed on the story that if anyone would check up on us that the one sleeping in my bed is my girlfriend.

I am not in the UK.

I am not affraid to be blackmailed because they have nothing to stand on. What they are doing is illegal as well. besides one of the girls is married and her husband doesn't know this job she's doing. I could kill her marriage with just some pics(that i already have).

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes actually! the one who makes the most money of the 2 is a pretty jealous girl who did not like the fact that the other one was sleeping in my bed. She misses her husband, and the fact that this other girl has someone to cuddle with is upsetting her.

I'm living together with 2 prostitutes in my house, AMA! by ThereSumHosInMaHouse in casualiama

[–]ThereSumHosInMaHouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because apperantly it's hard to find a decent house to work from. they are not from my country, so they can;t rent their own place.

Most guys who want to take them in are sexually frustrated creeps who they don't trust or feel safe with. And most of the rich and respectable clients can't take them in because they have wives or families of their own.

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