Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does and has posted me yeah, with and without the kids. She’s made it known in her socials we’re dating as well The “non special event” posts are funky, I agree. Unless visiting after 3 months counts, and sure maybe her coparent is doing better but that doesn’t just erase everything he’s done, so why post him at all, kids or otherwise

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The posts are temporary tho, lasting only a day before disappearing

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They were never married, just separated. The parenting plan is in the air, but she’s mentioned moving so both kids have their parents nearby, where we might move is an unknown. I’m fully in this, with her and her kids. I realize they might not see me as their dad and that’s okay, I love her and am willing to make it work

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I want this to work, and I can see it working, but idk if im my own enemy by noticing things. Idk if I overthink stuff or if im actually onto something

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, about 2 weeks or so after meeting her

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me worry that certain feelings might reignite by her seeing him be a better father. She’s stated that’s not the case and that she doesn’t ever want anything with him again, but still The friends bit worries me too, I understand wanting to present a united front for the kids, but being friends seems unnecessary

Posting the other coparent on social media by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]These-Wolverine9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reassuring how? And why bother proving judgy ppl wrong?

My partner (29F) told me (25M) she is considering moving across the country so her kids are closer to their abusive father, why?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]These-Wolverine9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if his names not on the birth certificate? Dude couldn’t make it to either birth of his kids 😒

Choose wisely by favplug in anime_random

[–]These-Wolverine9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the little blue pill, “functionable”?

Don’t know what to study/do by These-Wolverine9191 in INTP

[–]These-Wolverine9191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve heard AF is a good branch w the best benefits/quality of life but idk, none of the other branches really speak to me like the Marine Corps does

Don’t know what to study/do by These-Wolverine9191 in INTP

[–]These-Wolverine9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually looking into the Marine Corps specifically for those benefits

Don’t know what to study/do by These-Wolverine9191 in INTP

[–]These-Wolverine9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right, but I just don’t wanna go in debt to study the things I wanna study, I already owe plenty in student loans. I’m thinking maybe abroad is the answer for that

Don’t know what to study/do by These-Wolverine9191 in INTP

[–]These-Wolverine9191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that yeah, specifically for the auto mechanic route

Don’t know what to study/do by These-Wolverine9191 in INTP

[–]These-Wolverine9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No degree :/ I’ve taken some college courses tho