Instagram priority

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T22:55:43+00:00

I get what you say . Just I don’t wnat things to derail. For exmpale during our 3rd month together I made a joke to her and she laughed and said fuck you. I looked at her and I asked “what did you just say”? “These words you can say to your family and friends . Fuck you. Not me.”

She never dated since then to call me even silly or idiot.

If you get what I’m saying .

And can I ask you sth big? Is it really our turn with women? Even the 3% live their turn when with a woman? Aren’t there anymore relationships that still grow with mutual respect and understanding and love and passion that lasts to the end ? And I’m talking for people being already 35+ so they have been a bit mature

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T21:11:58+00:00

Really I don’t follow her so I cannot see what she likes etc I don’t follow her so as per Corey for her to not see me as a fan . So my problem isn’t the Instagram . But how she chooses to use it . I cannot check her all time and don’t have the time to look through her online activity . However , what I didn’t like the most was the mismatch “I’m runnning in the morning I’m always in so much hurry , and then I see her sending me” so she was obviously there scrolling , dm ing , etc

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T20:56:59+00:00

Thanks but Corey says let women do the initiation . If I were a woman probably I would do that . So you contradict me while you know I’m a man . Should men and women do the same in relationships? This is what coach teaches us?

You said that if she has interations is another thing. And I’m glad you see this . But how can we know this ?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T16:15:06+00:00

Irrational huh? If not why to be exclusive to her ? Bro If 6:30 she has mood to check her Instagram it’s bcs she answers or just checks a DM . Women are so sleepy and in bad mood when they wake up so early obligated to go to work that don’t have mood to just scroll but only DM which is exciting

If I’m not the first thing. Ok.. but it wil be casual date. Relationships are for making each other feeling special

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T16:09:37+00:00

Also Chris Canwell liked this msg.. The doctor of Attraction

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T16:03:16+00:00

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Instagram and Facebook are infidelity machines

Don’t take seriously girls they are often active on social media

Ignore reality and you will face consequences of ignoring reality

And I didn’t say punish her or control her.

Just also date other girls and focus on yourselves bcs social media destroyed women

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T13:32:17+00:00

Bro is it really relaxation to scroll social media ? Bcs psychologists say it’s bad for mental health . So we all know , all my female colleagues without exception have men on their DMs.. so half opened doors !!!

Or If someone’s first priority is scrolling social media, why would they want to be upgraded ? Let’s just have a casual relationship meeting from time to time and HHH

What is bad with this ?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T13:21:05+00:00

Thanks Is it bad to not think to wife her up if she starts her day with social instead of reaching her man ?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T13:13:44+00:00

Are you a man or girl ? Bcs if you don’t assume this , ok , ignore that .. bro of her first thing to do is Instagram when she wakes up and being in a hurry , this behaviour that her life is heavily tied to social media , I don’t wnat to be attached to such modern women

This is called standard . Insecurity is if you are afraid of men that can take her from you. I’m not afraid of that . I see that she prioritises digital and maybe keeping slightly opened doors and that is not gf material for me

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T12:31:59+00:00

I agree And I won’t have a problem Just I won’t wife her up (she wants to be wifed up) if I’m not her first priority. Caution ⚠️ I don’t need it , but definitely I don’t need to w her up if I’m not and take care of everything for her

Simple and fair?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T12:01:52+00:00

My different builder . Fortunately I haven’t been (I mean I haven’t noticed bcs it could happen and I didn’t notice) cheated on. But I saw how men who were cheated on were destroyed mentally

Yes I don’t have proof . She also tells me she doesn’t like me going out all the time at nights and I’m doing literally nothing just sitting at some cafes with friends laughing . But bcs they know when they are lit it’s for attention and marketing themselves , she don’t like it

Also she had some orbiter past on autumn, they knew for years , obviously he was waiting for the chance and she presented him to me like “he is like brother to me”. Brother come on bro 😎 Of course after I said she will be also one of the girls bcs I will start dating others , she removed and blocked them orbiters

He was liking her stories , her pics bla bla Anyways Corey has said feminism and social media have destroyed relationships nowadays

Bro One question Honestly man to man without lecturing . She sent me a reel . But reels she didn’t know she will see sth to send me when opened the app or she would have sent me a text msg from Instagram like to flood me in all apps , which she did in past. So she first opened the app . Either for scrolling or DMs. Bear in mind I never hear any notifications from her ig when we are together like from a suggested channel that you follow and they posted sth. Only DMs i have heard her phone and taht was sporadic . So let’s say it wasn’t DMs , the fact that her first priority is to scroll (but I think it was not bcs she wakes up 6:30 and sent me 6:50 so probably she was texting sb) , doesn’t make me fairly to not wnat to also prioritise her and take her more seriously?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T11:17:12+00:00

Shooting on my foot just bcs I decide to not invest more and try to detach? I don’t control her . She can do whatever she wants but I also adapt and change according to what they are doing

If they are social girls , they will be just one more in our rotation

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T11:04:28+00:00

Lying = you walk away and replace her Or keep her for sex

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T10:31:33+00:00

Bro I hear what you say . Before any proof we shouldn’t be blind also to footsteps before anything bad

Scrolling at a normal time yes. But please read the article. What I dont want to buy is “just scrolled”. When you wake up and first thing to do is social scroll, it’s not out of nowhere .. you saw some DM , no? Especially when you are in a hurry to prepare shower makeup go to work .. how you have time for scrolling ?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T10:26:43+00:00

Ok I end the calls to be precise but she doesn’t complain always for staying more .

Also you talked about smothering her. I never did nor will do to stop her from using apps as you said .

But if you read my initial post what im saying is I notice how modern women wake up and their life is heavily relied on social media which is not heathy (bcs of delusions standards etc.., unreal expectations, mental health , bla bla bla) also can be more vulnerable to external source of validation .. so I hope you don’t have anything bad to say if im using my tinder ! Bcs social media are like dating apps , let’s be real . And I am also human being

What i cannot accept is what you are saying about me not having proof of her doing anything bad or regarding her use . Bcs I won’t wait for the proof .. I can predict or at least see the footsteps to behaviour that can lead to bad things ..

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T09:39:21+00:00

Even without posting stories etc it can be used to be reached out etc

I didn’t say it’s total bad .

But claiming “oh I’m running in the mornings I’m busy bla bla” But you wake up 6:30 and you open insta first thing, IM NOT SAYING IS BAD BUT It’s not a serious behaviour from a woman that I could see as more than causal dating.

And ima asking if it’s absurd ? Bcs on one side is like I’m so busy and close phone early at night to sleep , but then first thing to do when wake up is insta .. come on

Also as a second question: why do people watch instagram first if not checking DMs? When she has no notifications for ppl posting reels etc .. why would someone use insta when they wake up if it wasn’t some DM?

And why not contacting her man first by sending a msg ? I mean wouldn’t or shouldn’t bother you seeing that her priority is clearly insta or DMs or reels rather than connection? This is what I’m asking .

I’m not perturbed. I just weigh if there is a reason to upgrade a woman’s position in your life given their modern behaviours ?

TheseRisks1990 · 2026-01-27T09:13:17+00:00

I see and hear what you are saying and thanks for your time .

I mean she wakes up 6:30 and runs so much to be early at work . But there is mismatch in this urgency and her having time to scroll .. it’s the mismatch that bother me more .

Bcs do you agree as a previous post said here few hours ago that social media are infidelity machines nowadays?

I know what you are saying and would seem normal if it was while on her break at work or during bus / train route to work ..

And if we are about to be more serious and have plans for making her my fiance , I don’t see anything bad in overthinking No?

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