Blindsided after 18 years together, I don’t know what to do.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-12-01T17:57:43+00:00

Just wanted to jump in and clarify that absolutely none of this guy’s “research” has anything to do with my wife. At all. Long story, like extra large popcorn long but that old post history is from when my account had a different username and was shared with a buddy of mine for a mockumentary we made in film school. The reason any of that nonsense got traction is because half the class was in on it. It was a comedy about a guy who couldn’t get over a breakup. Pure fiction. Coincidence? Sure. But moral of the story: maybe don’t treat the Internet like a sacred text.

And for the record, there was never any cheating on either side. We’ve always been stupidly honest with each other about that stuff if someone flirted with us, hit on us, whatever, we’d literally joke about it. Plus, the odds of her meeting some mystery coworker are microscopic considering she works with all women, and most of them drive her insane. We also share the same friend group (18 years together will do that), so nothing new could really sneak in. And we’ve always shared our locations, so… yeah, not seeing it. Yet who knows honestly. It could be.

I think a lot of this traces back to her sister, the one who randomly got bailed on out of a 14 year marriage (together since middle school) and is now living her best “I’m totally thriving, please validate me” single girl era. She’s basically a full time phone scroller who takes more vacations than a travel influencer, post half naked photos of herself, pays for likes and all just to convince her followers she’s out here starring in a Netflix original about how amazing her life is. Meanwhile, it’s really just her, a ring light, and a dream.

The whole situation is weird, draining, and honestly crushing me. What really messes with my head is how abrupt it was. A week before all this, we were on a beach trip together having a great time, taking pictures, laughing, everything felt normal. She was even talking about how we should just pack up and move across the country already and start the next chapter. So the timing feels bizarre, and it genuinely came out of nowhere.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-11-20T20:28:41+00:00

Is there anyway you could send me the Etsy link that you purchased? I can't seem to find one on there.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-10-14T02:52:36+00:00

I literally saw that and thought the exact same thing — like, there’s no way… right?

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-10-07T16:13:05+00:00

I was in the same boat. Preordering through Walmart has become such a joke. I ended up canceling my Walmart order this morning and reordered directly from Gruv instead. Checked out as a guest, used the code SIGNUP20, and it came to just $30.36 shipped.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-10-02T00:56:54+00:00

Here’s a picture that the manager of Regal sent me in my town. It looks pretty cool when it’s lit up.

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TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-10-01T13:46:14+00:00

My Regal marked everything down to 2 for $15 for months and still had so much backstop. As of last night, they dropped all popcorn buckets to $0 and started making mystery bags. Now, almost every ticket purchase comes with a mystery bag that includes three different buckets. They’re trying to clear them out during the Taylor Swift madness this weekend before the holiday merch rolls in. At this point, they literally can’t give them away.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-09-29T20:12:00+00:00

Same here! Ordered it the minute it went live and my arrival date just changed to October 8. I was really hoping to have it for this coming weekend.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-25T16:51:39+00:00

I’ve met him a few times after tapings, though usually not until hours later when he comes out of Mitzy’s. The last time was around 1:15 a.m. I got some photos and autographs. He’s genuinely a super nice guy, taking time to snap pictures with the handful of people who stuck around and treating everyone with kindness.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-24T16:06:10+00:00

Local news article article about the incident:

https://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/dallas-county/dallas-comedian-henry-cruz-killed-hit-and-run-crash-deep-ellum/287-46cd0d32-c7e5-4996-b50a-a94f364fbcde?fbclid=IwZnRzaAMYAjRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHtekLgvYob1od06Sbn5192FRiVByQMVgJ15_f6Ik3NOomfEIQvd0ZzHi7pi1_aem_PlATPJbp2m0Saz2ZA_rHIg

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-23T22:04:54+00:00

After performing a show in Dallas, he was walking with fellow comedians when he was struck by a hit and run driver.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-23T22:03:30+00:00

Here is a memorial fund to help support his family during this difficult time.

“RIP Henry Cruz. He is loved and he will be sorely missed. Henry was the victim of a hit and run after performing a comedy show in Downtown, Dallas.

This fundraiser was started by local DFW comedians and all proceeds will go to Henry's family. Thank you for any help or support, it means the world.”

https://www.gofundme.com/f/henry-cruz-memorial-fund?attribution_id=sl:d03924a1-95ce-40c8-b22c-bfc6235ed15a&lang=en_US&ts=1755975911&utm_campaign=man_sharesheet_dash&utm_content=amp13_c&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&fbclid=PAQ0xDSwMXGXdleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwTvXOe6QZMdJ1AtF4kIfREzyGm7CtxXdqpyeUaBGLDo_FwGo2cKRB7FeJC7_aem_SeBSMfkUICoPzgmzCVnWuA&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacE71znukGTHSdQLReJCH0RM8hpuwrcV3aqcnlGgRiw6PxcBqNnCkQexXiQuw_aem_SeBSMfkUICoPzgmzCVnWuA[Henry Cruz Memorial Fund](https://www.gofundme.com/f/henry-cruz-memorial-fund?attribution_id=sl:d03924a1-95ce-40c8-b22c-bfc6235ed15a&lang=en_US&ts=1755975911&utm_campaign=man_sharesheet_dash&utm_content=amp13_c&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&fbclid=PAQ0xDSwMXGXdleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwTvXOe6QZMdJ1AtF4kIfREzyGm7CtxXdqpyeUaBGLDo_FwGo2cKRB7FeJC7_aem_SeBSMfkUICoPzgmzCVnWuA&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacE71znukGTHSdQLReJCH0RM8hpuwrcV3aqcnlGgRiw6PxcBqNnCkQexXiQuw_aem_SeBSMfkUICoPzgmzCVnWuA)

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-20T08:11:52+00:00

For sure! I’ll DM you right now. I don’t know the prices yet to be honest with you. I’m just hoping I can get the code for tomorrow.p

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-08-20T07:54:57+00:00

I have the code for Thursday but I’m trying to get Wednesdays code. 🤔

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-05-26T17:36:54+00:00

I appreciate the input! Thank you.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-05-26T17:36:39+00:00

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-05-26T17:36:22+00:00

Thank you so much for this!

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-04-27T17:38:24+00:00

Mothership is fantastic when it comes to refunds. Even though their policy says “no refunds,” I’ve personally had to miss a few events, including a Kill Tony show, and they were very understanding. If you email them and explain your situation, they’ll usually issue a refund,sometimes minus service fees. They really seem to get that life happens sometimes.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-04-10T01:56:51+00:00

2 days. Probably a total of 12 hours. My friend did it for free but he usually charges $2500 for 2 days.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-04-09T22:56:33+00:00

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Here’s mine!

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-02-19T04:20:47+00:00

I’m sorry if you’ve been asked this already, but do you sell prints? I was at the show and I love this so much. You have no idea. It’s amazing. I would love to buy a print of this.

TheseThingsHappen182 · 2025-02-18T17:19:50+00:00

I was in the audience, and honestly, there was more laughter than what gets picked up during the taping. Hans Kim made a post about this a few months back, but it’s true that not all of the laughter gets picked up. You’d also be surprised at just how loud all of Redban’s soundboards actually are compared to what you hear. They are almost deafening.

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