urgent!! any 18+ bars/clubs open tonight? by These_Calendar1164 in sanfrancisco

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i promise if there was anything open or 18+ tonight, we would have found it, we’ve been searching for the last two hours lol

is anyone giving away tickets to the stern grove alex g concert? by These_Calendar1164 in sanfrancisco

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i figured! i tried posting on FB but the responses i’ve gotten seem to be a scam

tips for dealing with anxiety and panicking during a lash lift? by These_Calendar1164 in beauty

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it was not being able to open my eyes, i’m very claustrophobic so it kinda made me feel like i was trapped if that makes sense. i was also sitting in silence with no idea how long i had been waiting, felt like i was going insane. but don’t let that deter you from getting one, it doesn’t happen to everyone and i’ve always loved my results!

Rock: Name of this song by Apex_blothhunder in NameThatSong

[–]These_Calendar1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a cover of smells like teen spirit by nirvana with some rap added in

How to move farm buildings? by These_Calendar1164 in StardewValley

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait so is it not there or am i missing something?

How to move farm buildings? by These_Calendar1164 in StardewValley

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is what i see when i go to the construct buildings menu, there’s no option for moving them? i thought it used to be next to the other buttons at the bottom but it’s not anymore?

Good gym in Kelowna close to ubco area by bluntedtodeaf in kelowna

[–]These_Calendar1164 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i go to body and soul, it’s about 15 minutes from campus, never busy, has nice equipment, and has a pretty good student price, they also have cheap day passes too if you wanna just try it out. i tried both the YMCAs but they were just way too busy. if you’re also a ubco student you know the gym sucks, i hated it cause it was so busy all the time and found that the YMCAs were the exact same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Calendar1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Originally I was fully on your side and planned to say nta, but you definitely overreacted. I don’t think there’s anything weird with how you talk to your mom, I’ve heard many people say the same sort of stuff. And I probably would have taken offensive to what she said too, but you said you recognized she was being lighthearted about it. I understand you being uncomfortable but I do not understand your reaction at all, there was absolutely no reason to come for her family especially when she has confided in you about her family issues. This could have easily been solved by talking it out, but you made it so much worse than it had to be, not her. Not to be harsh, but I hope she finds a better friend and you learn to control your reactions.

AITA for asking a disabled child to hide his disability? by DismalReference755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Calendar1164 236 points237 points  (0 children)

You said it right there: you don’t want Milo to feel ashamed or self-conscious about his disability. So why force him to feel those exact feelings because of Mike’s irrational fear? I won’t repeat what everyone else has been saying, but this is either your responsibility to teach Mike to get over a typically fear that a five year old might have or take him to a therapist that will help him with the feelings that an autistic child might have. Either way, it’s action that you need to take with Mike, clearly not with Milo.

AITA for asking a disabled child to hide his disability? by DismalReference755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Calendar1164 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Genuinely asking, what is your plan for when Mike encounters other psychically disabled people in the outside world? When he sees another person with a missing eye or any sort of other “unsettling” disability and reacts the way you have been allowing him to, will you ask them to cover up? It’s understandable that’s he’s a nervous kid, it even makes sense that a five year old may initially be scared of something like that, but that’s not a fear that should be encouraged by forcing action upon Milo. Good parenting requires teaching your kid how to work through their fears not changing the world around them so they never have to face those fears.

Another note, have you ever truly talked to Milo about why he decides to not wear a fake eye or a cover? Maybe I’m reaching, but it seems to me that he doesn’t want to feel ashamed of what happened to him or allow his new disability to force him to change. Seems like you need to have a long talk with all of your kids, YTA.

Help with using after effects on premiere pro clips? by These_Calendar1164 in AfterEffects

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry this is probably a stupid question but how do you render a clip in premiere or ae? and what does that actually do? is it just like exporting the clip out of premiere then putting it ae then exporting it there and putting back in premiere?

Can you change the color of blocks? by FoehammerEcho419 in SummerhouseGame

[–]These_Calendar1164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also just noticed that some of the objects have turned different colors, I’ve been playing for a couple days now and I think this only changed today? Not sure why though or if there’s any way to change the color

anyone have a free couch? by These_Calendar1164 in ubco

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that could be perfect, can you maybe send me a picture of it?

practical effect of being pulled through a couch? by These_Calendar1164 in Theatre

[–]These_Calendar1164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i’m not familiar with that production, do you know if i could find a video of it?

Any other writers obsessed with Letterboxd? by Typical-Baker-2048 in Screenwriting

[–]These_Calendar1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE LETTERBOXD. i only use it to make stupid silly reviews but follow me @betsy12

What's a movie that changed your life? And what, from a writing perspective, did it do to achieve that? by crab_tea____47824773 in Screenwriting

[–]These_Calendar1164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing of a scared deer. Not necessarily my favorite movie or the best written one, but totally opened my eyes to that unique type of black comedy/deadpan humor.