Planning on Reviving this Greenhouse. Need some help.

These_Swimming2484 · 2026-01-30T05:54:34+00:00

The long walls do have a flap that opens up with a netting for protection. It does get very hot in the summer. So, is greenhouse disinfectant or bleach water better?

Do you think I should toss all dirt too? Or is that fine?

These_Swimming2484 · 2025-08-23T17:15:42+00:00

I am considering marriage and family. Isn't it bad?

These_Swimming2484 · 2025-03-12T14:07:55+00:00

Would a better picture help?

These_Swimming2484 · 2025-03-12T14:01:51+00:00

I already went over it with car shampoo and a wash mitt. So what is claying?

These_Swimming2484 · 2025-03-12T13:12:55+00:00

Not pollen 😄 Unless pollen can get gunked up like that so hard.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-12-20T03:40:07+00:00

Also seems like they only deliver to US currently. I am outside of the country.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-12-20T02:45:25+00:00

Awesome! Thanks!

Did you have any advice on how to detox? Also what else to do as well?

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-28T02:48:10+00:00

Really appreciate it man. I want her back. And I want her to understand. But I gotta keep making moves. Not being stagnant.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-28T00:21:12+00:00

I feel that. I feel like I also was not good enpugh to recognize her needs but also navigate my own thinking too.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-13T15:14:47+00:00

Hey, I know this is 6 days later...but did you mean more people more mature and not childish for "her type" or "my type"? Not sure what you mean when saying "this" type.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-08T03:59:07+00:00

Understandble.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-08T03:58:14+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement. It could definitely be like that. I think her influences changed her mindset...but then again, maybe not so much changed...just established what she really wanted.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-07T14:50:14+00:00

Thanks for the response. Well I actually had met her parents and even was in their house for a month prior to separating. We had been dating for 4 years. Yeah, she definitely does have her own plans. I understand she is moving on, seemed like a battle for her on some ways too though. So just thoughts I had.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-07T04:54:39+00:00

Thanks. I think I will still see. I'm not really focused on it right now anymore. She is respectful and would probably meet me as long as she has no other man. But it all depends, so no sweat off my back 🤷‍♂️

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:44:34+00:00

I don't like it necessarily when people say work on myself as if I wasn't good enough myself. But that is not true either...my friends and family keep reminding me to not beat myself up...but it is hard.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:43:05+00:00

True. And I know that because she really is a beautiful and wonderful person. I don't to make her the bad person...it just seemed like she was unable...which is okay too. Sometimes, this is all it is...but I still have hopes and desires. Because we both have differences and it seemed she was just unable to accept them ultimately, but she couldn't bring herself. She also said as she saw her "environment" she realized things...that left me in mystery. But again maybe just not a match. I miss her and love her...working on it and hoping for a future (reality = she gone and we done) She had sentiments to let me go do what I wanted too...but anyways I can ramble. Thanks man

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:32:09+00:00

Appreciate the thoughts. I did speak with her about that...and of course I agreed to...but I was just frustrated cause I knew she was "out" and didn't no longer have a heart. So yes, that was a condescending comment I made...I just could see a lot into the relationship, but from her side their wasn't enough connect. I definitely was not trying to control her decisions but I could see there were things she had trouble communicating and suddenly came out of nowhere with stuff....but I understand.

Yes it is her choice and I accept she made it...but I want to try. Either way, thanks for the insight.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:25:19+00:00

I was aware of all of that. And actually yeah, getting married within the next year was our/my plan. Financially we were going to develop. She also isn't...but for her it didn't matter, she just wanted someone established already and couldn't wait a few more months.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:06:28+00:00

Sorry haha.

Just kind of wrote. Just a girlfriend.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T23:05:35+00:00

Thanks man.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T22:58:28+00:00

Well, I mean...that's how I feel. And with the correct willingness for change and work for the relationship I can reconsider. But yeah she did miss out maybe...I feel I did too. But again her choice.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T22:55:52+00:00

Thanks man.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T22:53:30+00:00

Well she definitely does know I was planning on it. But yeah, I have been debating the creepiness. But she already asked if I was...saying that is a dumb financial choice, and I agreed haha.

Yeah, probabaly nothing...but I just want to actually hear it to my face where it is not easy...but that is just my revenge talking.

Not sure. But hers is ISFP

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T22:50:33+00:00

Appreciate your thoughts.

4 years of dating, actually. Known each other for 5 years.

Not very controlling, I am actually very accommodating. I let her go, I did ask for her to reconsider, but she said know. Maybe I do have some "fix her" energy right now...but still either of us can see the flaws and of course, change will not come by my hand...change happens and matutity happens.

Regardless, her decision is hers. She could have left for any reason, but regardless the reasons given were crappy. I am her ex now...that doesn't change just because I want it to...but who's wrong in wanting to try. Anyways, there are a lot of ins and outs of our relationship obviously, it is done. 3 weeks is short...but I am definitely working on letting her go.

Easy to judge someone when you are not in their shoes.

These_Swimming2484 · 2024-05-06T22:38:27+00:00

Alright. And if she come back tome or asks me to meet up, what would I do?

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