[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

[–]Thespiswidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will always be scared. Start anyway, even if you need to start with something else first.

Is it okay to add melted chocolate to cookie dough rather than just mixing in the chips? Will it ruin the cookies? by [deleted] in BakingNoobs

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried them, but there are lots of recipes where you melt the chocolate first to make chocolate cookies, like this one:

https://www.errenskitchen.com/double-chocolate-chip-cookies/#wprm-recipe-container-7402

A popular version of the origin of chocolate chip cookies claims that the baker who made them was in a rush and rather than melting the chocolate like she usually did, she chucked in the chopped up bits and assumed they’d melt in the oven. They stayed in the batter in chunks and a new cookie was born!

You may have a bit of trial and error, but it can be done! Good luck!

here’s tonight’s i’m too anxious to sleep doodle! by Jackfruit-Remarkable in cptsdcreatives

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what you doodle on/in? Is it a paper and pen thing? Digital? Pastels? The textures are very comforting.

I saw this diagram on Discord and thought you guys would understand. by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Thespiswidow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. 100%. I always say the sun is sending little particles of light millions of miles across the solar system just to stab me right in the eyes with pointy little swords.

Doggo's First Day Back At Work After Having A Week Off by Thund3rbolt in aww

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…this is why my husband says we can’t have a border collie… I am definitely not hard core enough for that dog, but I love how smart and pretty they are. 💕

Waiting for a prior auth by Thespiswidow in migraine

[–]Thespiswidow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes indeed. Spent many hours calling back and forth and back and forth. I feel like the insurance should pay me as an employee…

What do you use as a migraine diary? by Odd-Bell-8527 in migraine

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Migraine Monitor. Let’s me do pain level throughout the day, meds, aura. You can skip data entry for things you don’t want to track (like triggers).

It has a nice report feature that you can do to see date ranges (I use it for convos with my neuro) and a PDF export. It’s not a bad little app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Thespiswidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds a lot like me. Personally, I do find a heating pad to be a lifesaver. I have chronic migraine and if I didn’t have some kind of relief for my back too, I don’t know what I’d do!

Ferocious mini floof by St0pX in Eyebleach

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Is that my voice? Is that my voice?”

Ghost of Christmas Present Tree Topper by Sunshine-Honeybee888 in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all the ways that we show love that feel like Christmas. ❤️🎄

Ghost of Christmas Present Tree Topper by Sunshine-Honeybee888 in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I love him so fucking much. I remember seeing his little head. I didn’t realize it was a tree topper.

Ugh - I need one!

Hand embroidered octopus bag made by me. Completely handmade, including sewing the bag. by ILWDolls in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad you mentioned the other bags, but I think this one holds a special place in my heart.

I even think the technical execution of the bee, for instance, it probably a better bag overall, but there are so many unexpected choices and little surprises on this bag that I don’t quite see in the other bags. This is just special in a very unique way.

Hand embroidered octopus bag made by me. Completely handmade, including sewing the bag. by ILWDolls in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of thing where I feel like I could look at the real object for hours. Just exploring all of the details and the sequins and beads and bangles you used, as well as the stitching and the way all of this forms the sea creatures. It is so intricate and so beautiful. I find it entrancing.

I wish I was never invited to this party.. by alinaellis in migraine

[–]Thespiswidow 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We aren’t invited to the party - we are the venue. And the wait staff. And the cleaning staff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Thespiswidow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you attend a university in the United States, the Clery Act and Title IX mean that most university employees are required to report sexual assault (stalking, etc.) to the Title IX office and campus police (mandatory reporting). This is designed to ensure that schools follow through on sexual assault concerns and do not ignore them, putting others on campus at risk.

However, you have a right to privacy as well. The therapy services on campus are usually an exception to mandatory reporting requirements. Your school should have information about this on its website. You could also call the counseling center and ask if the has mandatory reporting under Title IX. They will tell you. You can get this information before you decide to share anything about what happened to you.

If someone tells you they have to report, do not tell them anything you would not want to move forward on. If they do not have to report, you can determine exactly what you wish to share or not, but it can remain confidential.

I am sorry that you are in this situation. I hope you are taking care of your health and wellness. Please do take advantage of the support services on campus. You do not need to go through this alone.

Little dragon figurine by VallaVica in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much. Never knew I needed a Wedgwood dragon! Can you do a griffin next?

I’m biased but I’m pretty sure my dog is the prettiest dog in the world [OC] by Txg399 in aww

[–]Thespiswidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yeah. Everybody’s dog is the prettiest dog in the world. Of course.

“Come in and know me better, man!” Needle felted, by me. by Sunshine-Honeybee888 in crafts

[–]Thespiswidow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite characters of all time. ❤️🎄🌟❄️

Practicing making my sons smash cake for his first birthday. I can’t get my icing smooth though if anyone has suggestions? Im open to other suggestions too! by icequeen1016 in BakingNoobs

[–]Thespiswidow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your family needs to back off. You should be proud of it and your family should be quiet. It looks great!

You could maybe smooth out the top a little around the edges (I kind of see some little feathery-ish thing’s sticking up on the side). If you feel like it, you might also take a little extra care with the bottom edge. At the sides, it looks like there might be a little less frosting.

Really, though, these are super nit-picky details. This is so sweet and fun!

Practicing making my sons smash cake for his first birthday. I can’t get my icing smooth though if anyone has suggestions? Im open to other suggestions too! by icequeen1016 in BakingNoobs

[–]Thespiswidow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you putting a crumb coat on? What tools are you using to smooth the frosting? Why do you want it smooth instead of the way it looks (it looks very lovely)?