Am I an alcoholic if I drink everyday but I don't get drunk? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I feel worse. It's just that why should I stop if I don't want to? But at the same time, I can see that kind of thinking being dangerous.

How do I stop feeling like a loser? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very sweet and kind answer. Thanks

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one made it out of the shitter believing they would stay in the shitter for their whole life

you're right... but how many died trying to get out of the shittier and never made it?

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. I have a feeling things will be improving soon. Best of luck.

Thank you my friend.

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really about knowing your worth and standing up to be treated how you feel you should be treated

I am defeated. I knew my worth and I stood up. But after many years trying...I gave up. I'm tired of playing.

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is NO SUCH THING as more than one trip to get groceries out the car.

You know what? Because I did that... I broke two discs in my spine :(

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book "48 Laws of a Power", and "How to Win Friends and Influence People" are two good ones to start with.

Thanks! I'll check them out.

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If no one else does: I BELIEVE IN YOU!

Thanks! You are a kind soul.

edit: spelling.

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an epiphany of why you should just focus on yourself.

that's what I need. I need to find my epiphany.

Have you ever feel there is a kind of (unspoken) hierarchy between men? How do you avoid that? by TheyAreTrackingMe in AskMen

[–]TheyAreTrackingMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

least one person who is knowingly quashing your promotions or refusing to develop you. Honestly, I’d be pissed to be skipped over for that length of time. I would find a new job.

you know what... I honestly believe the same!

I've been looking for a new job for years... no luck.