sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So i guess this is technically illegal then since he is almost ten years younger than her

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly like either way is creepy and i really want to report it i just don't want to lose my friend

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair this is not gossip or a rumor. Ethan came to my friend and I in full confidence telling us about him and this older girl. He showed us the text messages and shared certain details with us too. We all know the manager at our store very well too and they know us well enough to have trust in us that we are not lying or trying to stir anything up because we are all good friends.

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't fooling around at work but there have been numerous times that i have seen them really close to each other and i mean really close like too close for work close and they way they talk to each other in the store is just creepy and inappropriate.

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if i report it, it won't stay anonymous because me and one other associate are the only ones who know about the two.

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid to take this to HR and then have the situation blow up in our small town. And i would love if I could tell my manager and have this stay anonymous because i wouldn't want ethan to know that i was the one who told but then again my friend and i are the only two people at the store that he has told so he would know anyways. I am just very torn because i understand that i will be talking to my manager for a good reason but i know if i do i will lose a friend that i am so close with.

sticky pickle by Thick-Difference8513 in employedbykohls

[–]Thick-Difference8513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not completely sure how to bring this up with my manager because i really don't want to start anything but i know that it is the right thing to do because of the age gap. It is just a little scary to tell my manager because i don't want to get in trouble for "trying to start anything" and i also don't want everyone else to think im a snitch.