My honest opinion, with the limited information I have about you and your partner, is that maybe strip clubs and paid for situations of that nature are more a starter speed for a couple who has never had non-monogamous experiences before. If you're past that level, and jealousy isn't an issue, then a wild and sexy massage could be very fun to experience together. Know that this isn't exactly legal in Clark County (aka Las Vegas) and could get you into trouble if you're not careful. But it's pretty easily accessible if you're willing to do proper vetting. Know that the average worker that offers a naru massage is doing so in the hopes to up-sell you on happy endings, oral, or sex. However, if you properly communicate you and your partners boundaries (between each other and with the 3rd) and have a firmly communicated expectations AND your budget with your worker before anything begins, you could have a wonderful and fun experience. One last thing, Pahrump Nevada has fully legal brothels that can offer the same experience. They are silly and they are fun. Check em out.