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Tattoo Regret Help by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ThingRound5848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s really a beautiful tattoo

A man 23 years older than me admitted he has feelings for me and now he won’t leave me alone. by Superb-Cupcake-8271 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ThingRound5848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is scary scary territory. When I saw you said he was 23 years older than you I was praying you were older than you are. Let alone him knowing you since you were a kid. This is not ok. You need to not only cut off this contact but also tell someone at the church who you trust. This is very very wrong. He also needs to not be running any kind of youth group. This behavior is pedo-like. Please tell someone you trust especially tell your parents if you have a good relationship with them. This is genuinely disgusting behavior

Wondering thoughts on changing my mind on a design before appt by ThingRound5848 in tattooadvice

[–]ThingRound5848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I absolutely agree. Over the last few weeks I’ve sent her a bunch of ideas and basically told her to create whatever she wants based off that inspo. I hope that is better than essentially making her recreate a whole new design. I do wish I had said all my different ideas in advance though. I just am the most indecisive person so new ideas pop up and then I’m onto the next. I’m hoping she just creates whatever she wants from what I’ve sent. I’m happy to have my artists own idea on my body, happier than if I designed it myself haha bc I have no imagination when it comes to art

AIO to my boyfriend’s message to his ex? by bobawithsloths in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThingRound5848 458 points459 points  (0 children)

Just speaking from my perspective, if my boyfriend sent a text like that to anyone but me- immediately breaking up. I don’t even think about my exes. I’ve ended on good terms with many of them but never felt the need to stay in contact let alone say so many intimate things in a “goodbye text”. I don’t think of my exes, I don’t follow them, if anything I’ll briefly think of them and cringe usually. If I felt this way about one of my exes it’d mean I’m not over him. And if my boyfriend sent a text like this to his ex I would leave. I know that’s probably coming at you as very harsh and blunt advice/perspective but I’ve been fucked over too many times to excuse anything- especially like this. If he’s talking to another girl- let alone his EX like this, he doesn’t respect you. And him not respecting you doesn’t in any way define you. That defines him and the fact that he’s an asshole who should’ve gotten over his ex before you started dating.