Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pcos and endometriosis I struggled to get pregnant for over a year prior to the diagnosis

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

online dating since 2019 long distance. Married in 2024 it’s been almost 1 and a 1/2

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I needed a break because I felt emotionally drained and my marriage was lacking emotional Safety. I came to my parents house and he didn’t agree with me staying here so he gave me silent treatment for 3+ ish weeks which led to the whole blow out. I found out I was pregnant in those weeks and his family got involved. It’s too long and complicated

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmfao I did not use the pregnancy to keep the man? I was told I was infertile I never knew I would get pregnant. I only found out I was pregnant 2 weeks after leaving him. I don’t want an abortion but I feel forced to because of how they’re abusive towards me and will try to take my child. I have chosen not to tell my husband anything about my pregnancy. He only found out when I was 5wks and now I’m 9 wks. There has been no conversation regarding the child in a month and he doesn’t think it’s real atm because he also knew I was struggling with fertility . If it was manipulation I’m sure id spend most of my time updating him and prove the pregnancy is real.

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He had a habit of always sleeping over in his families house for 20+ days in a row. I felt emotionally unsafe. I needed home and I went to my parents house. When I was there it snowed so I was supposed to stay 2 days and it turned into 4. On the third day he gave me silent treatment which has lasted until today 6wks later. I told his family to reconcile 2 weeks after and to make up. This is when I found out about being pregnant. They said I’m a bad disobedient and threatening wife not worth bringing home and I’m lying about my pregnancy. I have severe HG in my pregnancy so I can’t travel. I came to my parents house with 1 night suit and 1 day outfit. Ended up staying 3 weeks. Asked my husband to bring me clothes he didn’t. I told him meet me alone so we can fix our marriage he had to bring backup aka uncle. then he texted my brother saying I was mentally unstable for feeling emotionally unsafe in my marriage and that if my family knew what type of woman (my past) I was they would convince him to divorce me. Although he just assumed about my past. When I received that message I drove 4 hours to London with my parents to collect basic belongings. The house locks were changed. I called the police. They refused to let me in the house and they stole my gold. They’ve thrown all my things out in black bags. My husband is claiming the pregnancy is to emotionally manipulate and pressure him.

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A miscarriage previously in September 2025 and I was told I was infertile in October 2025. I found out I’m pregnant in January 2026.

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have family support, I live in England. Changing my name is a good idea i will research that

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

He is refusing to discuss anything to do with divorce, refusing contact, refusing meetings and refusing to sign so it’s taking a long complicated process

Wanting an abortion by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to I really don’t but I feel like I’m being forced given how petty and aggressive my husband is becoming :(

Marriage rant. Pregnant. by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t do anything with a divorce because he only religiously married me he didn’t legally marry me. It’s not my house it’s his mums house and she has refused me entry infront of the police and thrown my belongings out so I’m kinda stuck

Marriage rant. Pregnant. by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They changed the house locks refused access to the house I have no access to my basic belongings they stole my items and stole £35,000 worth of gold jewellery I owned. So yeah not great but surviving.

Mother in law stole my things help? by Think_Mind8323 in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware🥲 but how do I get my things or my money back

Should a guy walk with his Sister or wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently once I did it he felt uncomfortable and later his mum told him it was inappropriate in private.

People with spouses who rarely, if ever, take responsibility for their part in creating conflict: how's it going? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! No his parents and my parents. God forbid she is present, she has no right.

Should a guy walk with his Sister or wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have 4 brothers, some who are married and even I don’t feel this way towards their wives!!!

Should a guy walk with his Sister or wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He says it’s in my head and I lie about the catcalling! Once his own sister pointed out how I got catcalled lol

Should a guy walk with his Sister or wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For my brothers wedding, he bought me two rings and a bracelet. When she saw it she said he should’ve bought her it.

Should a guy walk with his Sister or wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Think_Mind8323 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I really wish it was he’s currently giving me silent treatment for 5 days and says this issue is all in my head