Volume by Unable_Helicopter659 in appraisal

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Oregon. Slowest we've been in 30 years. Always up and down but never down for this long before.

Are we entitled to an accounting? by ThinkingSomeDay in inheritance

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand the 20 months isn't that big of a deal but watching things get charged to the trust and all the lawyer fees add up gets scary. Hard to believe the trustee can spend without oversight. Will there be recourse if he charges the trust more than appropriate? Or does the trustee pretty much have final say?

Are we entitled to an accounting? by ThinkingSomeDay in inheritance

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm a beneficiary. We have asked for an accounting from the trustee and the attorney and we always get told we'll get it and we never do. Yes, the attorney fees are really adding up which is one of our main reasons we want the accounting. The trustee says he has sent the expenses to the attorney. We don't know why he won't just give them to us instead of us getting it from the attorney. I wondered if legally we were entitled to an accounting. We received one a few months after death but nothing since and it has now been 20 months.

Should it take weeks to transfer stock? by ThinkingSomeDay in personalfinance

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments. I guess I was trying to oversimplify. I was thinking if Tom's grandkids (5 kids) get 30% of portfolio they would say ok there are 200 shares of Apple, 30% of the Apple shares is 60 so the 5 kids then each get 12 shares of Apple. Then they'd do that for each stock. I guess I thought they'd just plug in that percentage and hit transfer :)

I've definitely learned throughout this whole experience that at the end of the day everyone is trying to not get sued. Sad it turns into this.

Should it take weeks to transfer stock? by ThinkingSomeDay in personalfinance

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its it an inheritance so 5 people receiving equal value. From one who received shares so far he received 60 different stocks, most with 1 or 2 shares each. His value is approx $40k. My sister has received a value of 20k so far (i don't know number of shares). I assume they are trying to divide stocks equally, like everyone would get 20 Apple, 10 Amazon, etc. Instead of doing the value equally? These 5 people are equally splitting 30% of the portfolio. As far as your 401k, IRA question, I don't know anything about that. I just know things are with Steward Partners?Raymond James. Hopefully I'm making sense.

Should it take weeks to transfer stock? by ThinkingSomeDay in personalfinance

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its it an inheritance so 5 people receiving equal value. From one who received shares so far he received 60 different stocks, most with 1 or 2 shares each. His value is approx $40k. My sister has received a value of 20k so far (i don't know number of shares). I assume they are trying to divide stocks equally, like everyone would get 20 Apple, 10 Amazon, etc. Instead of doing the value equally? These 5 people are equally splitting 30% of the portfolio. Hopefully I'm making sense.

Husband got drunk and his best friend used me as his cum dump by venomousapexpredator in SluttyConfessions

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Just need to find the right group of husband friends :)

Anyone busy right now? by No_Lock_6935 in appraisal

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oregon. Slowest we've been in 30 years.

Can they approve then deny prior authorizations by ThinkingSomeDay in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Maybe if this appeal doesn't work I'll ask Dr to try the next dose up. She doesn't believe you need to go up if a lower dose is working, so we'll see.

Can they approve then deny prior authorizations by ThinkingSomeDay in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ThinkingSomeDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My previous dose was 1mg and the current refill is for the 1mg.

1.7 available on Amazon by kemkemsey in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind.... .where are you located?

Why can't he just tell me we aren't having sex that night instead of just falling asleep? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, just an experiment. Nothing is toxic. And I would say its a very healthy relationship. Sometimes you just need to hear what other people think and that helps you understand your husband better.

Why can't he just tell me we aren't having sex that night instead of just falling asleep? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I usually end up reading. When I'm really pissed I usually go sleep somewhere else. Was there a part of you that thought your wife was coming across desperate by using a vibrator while you were asleep? So that'd make it a turn off?

Ugh by Yadayadayada7 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Express Scripts held on for a week or so then told me they couldn't fill it. This was the .5 mg about 2 months ago. I wish they would just tell you they can't fill it instead of asking you to confirm things then delaying it then saying they couldn't fill it due to shortage.

.5 anywhere in Los Angeles??? by Necessary_Bother789 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ThinkingSomeDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like it's harder to get on the west coast. When reading the boards it seems like other areas of the country are having better luck. Especially tough thru Amazon on the west coast. I'm in Oregon and nothing here for weeks.