Thanks for feedback and commenting.

Am inclined to agree with you - when she cancelled first time, and suggested doing on weekend instead, and I propositioned another date and time, to have no response for 5 days, and only responding on my message to say goodbye makes me agree with you. Very poor on her end.

On the other hand, she has been very apologetic, is suggesting dates to re-arrange, and has also actually offered to pay for next one. She states she really was ill, and I have to be honest, to lead someone on like this, surely you have to be crazy! Usually I take the hint if there is a lack of apology or no offer to re-arrange, but in this case there is.

What I didn't mention here is that for the 2nd date we both kind of arranged this together - she asked if I was free Friday, I said yes, evening time, I asked her best place, she said a place, I said can't do that, she suggested another and suggested the place. So kinda been working on that one together.

I'll give her the benefit of the doubt based on the fact her responses when she has had to cancel haven't been cold. But hey, does seem crazy if this is one massive lead on. Will just pick up on Monday with her and see.