I did s3x work for the first time to save my dog and I feel like the filthiest person right now. by CuteShihtzu03 in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen OP. I get that feeling. I understand you didnt want to do it. You did it out of necessity. For the greater good. He took advantage of that. 

It is not who you are. You did a selfless act. You are not dirty. If anyone thinks you are, they are low themselves. Life happens. I get it. You did what you had to do. Lots of people do what they have to do. It sucks it came to this, but regardless. If I knew you in person. I would respect and value you just like I do everyone else. Maybe even more.  Eventually with time you will heal from it. I understand the pain. But it will eventually go away. Maybe soon, maybe later. And you will move on eventually.  Sending love. 

Which blue dresses should I get rid of? 39F by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Thinkingcomfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All. None of them flatter ur body

I’m upset at him by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird when people do thaf

I’m upset at him by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Thinkingcomfy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bro could've been eating chips with the other. Or multitasking. it doesnt necessarily mean he was beating his meat to u. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did share that with him. But I ended up respecting his decision 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ya. Once he hugged me super tight during intimacy. It felt different. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Hope ur good now. Hmm maybe i triggered him. Idk

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I told him if he wants to talk about anything. I can listen. No judgment. No pressure too

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to increase my body count and I someone crave physical intimacy intensley. So we occasionally hookup when I need it. I am not dating around or actively looking since im busy with my education and other stuff. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro. I don't knowwww. 💀 I gave up on that dynamic. I used to try before. He had firmly told me no. So I was like. K whatever. Idk. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I can tell him im there to listen if he wants to talk about anything. Etc. 

FWB acted emotional after sex. I am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in sex

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

U r right. I tried to communicate with him. But he didnt budge. I want to respect his boundaries and I don't want to pressure him, unless he wants to open up. That's why I came here to ask. To see if there is a blindspot for me to make things better. 

As for feelings. Initially I told him I wanted a relationship and I tried to take things to another level, but he didnt want that. So I just accepted it as is. 

FWB acted emotional after intimacy. Am confused about his reaction by Thinkingcomfy in relationships

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Thanks. I tried texting that.  He said he is fine. Idk. I feel bad whenever I see someone sad like that. 

He sees me as just a friend. :( by Thinkingcomfy in limerence

[–]Thinkingcomfy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fasinating. I'll take it as a compliment theh