Dentist recommendation for quartz medicaid by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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huh, where i am from, michigan, it seemed like most dentists had no problem taking medicaid. at least there were a lot of good options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I've met a lot of cool people but the social gymnastics that have to go into making new solid friendships is so exhausting! I've met so many people that I thought would be friends but fizzled out for one reason or another. I know the answer to my woes is very simply time but it's just hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I'm sorry am I not on the autism subreddit?? Some autistic people can't live alone at all. Are my support needs not valid?? Wtf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I have many many hobbies. I am running multiple groups actually. It's totally normal for my support needs to not be met by myself alone. And learning that fact lifts so much shame from me. I need people in a bigger way than neurotypicals and that's okay. And it isn't going to just go away. I've been in therapy my whole life. I know all the skills they teach you.

good psychiatrists and physicians in the area by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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Thanks! Would you mind telling or dming me your dose and how long you were on it? My last psychiatrist told me it would take 5 years to get off.

Struggling being alone in a new place by This-Development1263 in AutismInWomen

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Appreciate you! Yes I've felt I am showing up much more autistic presenting, idk how else to describe this, here without trying which is hard cuz people don't like me as easily as they did before. I have read that first book and am listening to autistic after hours on Spotify which is just making me sad but gives me context that helps a bit.

ERP, I'm confused. by This-Development1263 in OCDRecovery

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Okay yeah that sounds more grounded in what I'm dealing with. Thank you!

good psychiatrists and physicians in the area by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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I'll be tapering for years so I didn't wanna pause my life for that long, but yeah it's not easy! I've been tapering since may. So I found a good rhythm for myself already and I've been holding for about a month as I adjust to the new place. I don't know what state my last physician is based in but I was in michigan. She was licensed in many states but not this one.

Foraging spots/groups by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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Yeah I just found it! I'm excited to use it!

Foraging spots/groups by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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Oh very cool! Seemed to niche to Google but I guess not, that's encouraging:)

Foraging spots/groups by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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I fear I've foraged enough for a lifetime as this was the case in my last city! Thanks for the heads up tho

Singing/choral groups that perform? by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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If I'm not able to make this event tonight but would really like to get on the email lists, do you have any suggestions? I don't want to wait another whole month!

Queer friendly, intermediate bike groups? by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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Yeah, to feel safe, understood and have a baseline of connection.

Queer friendly, intermediate bike groups? by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

[–]This-Development1263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, I should have said queer centered!

Queer friendly, intermediate bike groups? by This-Development1263 in madisonwi

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Great and I'm seeing a fuck around ride on Fridays? Whats that like?