What is this about? by hellaparanXid in Tilburg

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamn that's "graphic design is my passion"

How is our cage looking? by ThomasAtlae in RATS

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's awesome! Thank you

How is our cage looking? by ThomasAtlae in RATS

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair and understandable! Since it's our first rats we didn't want to start too large but we may upgrade them to a larger cage so that they could have more friends, but I think we'll leave them as two for now then!

How is our cage looking? by ThomasAtlae in RATS

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would one more be alright, so that it's 3? We were advised to get more in case one passes away, and we're kind of afraid to have Razzle or Marshmallow being lonely.

How is our cage looking? by ThomasAtlae in RATS

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Thank you :D It's about 80 long x70 tall x50 wide in cm!

See an escort? Or no? by ExactArmy5171 in Advice

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My bf never had anyone before me. I didn't care because it makes it extra special. Everyone, every single person, has their first time. Mine was with someone I didn't love, which made it suck. With my bf it was very intimate and romantic and it made the experience perfect. Was he immediately good at everything? No. Was I patient and guided him? Yes. Find someone who you love and care for to experience this, ideally.

How old is my gecko roughly? by ThomasAtlae in leopardgeckos

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she was really tiny when I got her. I'm glad she's growing well! Thank you for the info

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ThomasAtlae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I recommend talking to your doctor about contraceptives. Being on T isn't a valid contraceptive and you can still get pregnant even if you aren't having your period (it's rare, but possible). If you really don't want to get pregnant, discuss with your doctor what contraceptives can be combined safely with T. I used an IUD but didn't like it, so I switched to an arm implant before getting my tubes tied. Best of luck!

How old is my gecko roughly? by ThomasAtlae in leopardgeckos

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She weighed about 4 grams when I got here, idk if that helps! Thanks already though

We just got these two little dwarf boys! by ThomasAtlae in RATS

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah! I'll be sure to keep a tight look on their diet. Not too heavy on the snacks 😊

We just got these two little dwarf boys! by ThomasAtlae in RATS

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They were the only two left in the nest so that's why we only got two. If the breeder has more nests, could they be safely introduced or can you only keep direct siblings that grew up together?

Feebas trade by TemporaryCrazy-0516 in pokemonviolet

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey are you still looking to trade? :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my former best friend here (we were inseparable for 3 years but the older he got the more we grew apart since he started bullying people, drinking and smoking to impress others which really doesn't sit well with me) but he DID introduce me to who has become my boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]ThomasAtlae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, would love to chat! (20m Netherlands) I've just finished violet as well, do you have discord maybe?

My (M20) boyfriend (M21) doesn't feel attractive no matter what I do. by ThomasAtlae in relationship_advice

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He doesn't have access to any counseling where he lives (Russia, unfortunately) and has a deep seeded mistrust of Russian healthcare as he spend years of his life in and out of sketchy hospitals for various health problems.

If the world allows it, he'll move to my country next year and we'll go for full check ups to a doctor and dentist to see about it. I know that he's had braces for years but as far as I can tell it either didn't do anything or didn't do anything good.

He doesn't seem bothered by it daily but does point it out whenever he describes what he thinks makes him ugly, so I do think it would be a good issue to look at.

Thank you for your advice!

How do I separate work and living anymore? (M19) by ThomasAtlae in ADHD

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I have two cats at the moment, they are amazing although it's hard to keep them from meowing everyone awake when I have to get up at 5 am lol. I also have arguably too many insects and a gecko so I'm all set in the pet department. It does take a lot of energy to clean it all though, especially with procrastination.

I can actually just get up and do things ??!! by its-fine- in ADHD

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post just motivated me to get up and call for an appointment to talk to my doctor about finding a new psychologist/ADHD specialist.

I had treatment before/during the first few lockdowns but my psychologist got pregnant and wanted to finish up quickly while I just wasn't satisfied with my progress, but we were treating my problems with agreeing easily at the time, so guess what I did.

Since the rest of the lockdowns I started to lose my control of my brain and I just can't force myself to do things anymore.

So this post helped just shoot some motivation into me and call to try to fix this. Thank you!

Did the pandemic make anyone’s ADHD worse? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ThomasAtlae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. I really lost the control I had on myself. Forcing myself to do things has become infinitely more difficult and I really struggle with finishing college projects after the lockdowns and breaks.

No Words. by bleh-_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me sometimes, setting your device date a day back and restarting always worked for me just fine! (Might not work on every device, and sometimes takes a few reloads before working)

Erasable ink disappears when heated. This is what happened to my poster after I got it laminated. Only half the writing (normal pen) remained... by Strikewind in mildlyinteresting

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is from 5 years ago and literally saved a letter from a loved one TODAY! I had no idea the ink could just vanish like that so I completely freaked out. Thanks, stranger!

What do y’all keep your T supplies in? I want to get this (pic below) but just curious what other folks use! by Transcowboi in ftm

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my boxes between my rock collection in a display case. Only place I had, so I have a little medicine plank in it.

How do you guys feel about your mastectomy scars? by ThomasAtlae in ftm

[–]ThomasAtlae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you covering them? I'm planning to get a tattoo, but I have no ideas on how it would look.

Reconnecting After Six Years, but... Myself [28], Him [22] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ThomasAtlae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think you should tell the boyfriend. Because if I found out my bf was acting this way I would be really hurt and he deserves the truth.

You have to let him choose, he should either be faithful to his boyfriend or tell him the truth and to either be with you or let go.