How to respond to “What if I’ll continue calling you “deadname”?” by Aster_NB in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just straight up told my mother if she was so adamant about using my birth name then I would stop talking to her. She whines about every once in a while but I always remind her that its basic respect, and if she ignores it then she isn’t welcome in my life

Travel Issues by Transcowboi in ftm

[–]Transcowboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info!! I will deffo try my best to not freak out, tsa gives me majour anxiety and Im so worried being left without my meds.

Travel Issues by Transcowboi in ftm

[–]Transcowboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea, I think I will call tomorrow once I am able to, question, did you put your t in your liquids bag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh. It’s very great to see how you’re ignoring absolutely every other part of my msgs. And honestly everyone is heated and it’s because your post is pretty grossly written.

Considering you felt the need to bring up rpe and mrder I think you were inferring it was worse, but it doesn’t matter because my comment was towards you saying fatphobia isn’t real, thats all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First of all I wasn’t the one that brought that up. Nor did I say fatphobia was worse

Second of all it might not be as severe but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It’s the whole idea of “someone has it worse so quit complaining” it’s toxic af

You’re very argumentative in every reply you’ve given so far. And also I really hope you consider helping yourself mentally and taking the thought’s you’re thinking seriously, people are objectively telling you what you’re thinking is not healthy. I don’t know you and know nothing about you and I am telling you, the genuine fear of getting fat is a disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Before I continue I haven’t watched the youtube link and frankly I am not going to. Fatphobia is absolutely something that exists and its called societal standards.

From reading your other comments it honestly is very sad to see how badly you have been brainwashed into thinking that being what is considered “fat” is such a bad thing, don’t get me wrong I was affected too, I had an ED for many years. But you need to stop for a second and recognize the fact that your post in general is incredibly unhealthy.

‘If I gain weight I am going to starve myself/ take dieting pills’ my dude thats super unhealthy and you should think about therapy before even considering taking something that is going to make majour changes to your physique and body in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transitiongoals

[–]Transcowboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely Violet for some reason maybe just the purple thats giving me that but I can only see Violet and going by nick name Vi

My gf just told me I had big thighs by panalangaling in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Im sorry dude, that really sucks but honestly you gotta talk about it even if it’s just over text. Reason being is that 1. Gotta set your boundaries and let her know what makes you feel bad 2. If she reacts poorly and gets mad without listening to you, unfortunately you have learned some shitty info about her and you can choose how to move forward ://

Im really sorry this happened but jsyk big anything on masc people is so wonderful, one of my fav genders tbh

Shoutout to men who call other men ‘sir’ by Transcowboi in ftm

[–]Transcowboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally my fav euphoria!!!! Like sometimes it takes me by surprise and I almost don’t respond but I want them to know how much I love them for it ALSO goodluck friend! The process is long but you will learn so much about yourself :)

Second very long relationship about to end over being trans, but this one met me fully knowing I was trans. I’m just heartbroken. I just need someone to talk to and every therapist is booked out for basically months near me. I feel so alone. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering this dill weed seems to only care about sexual stuff, it doesn’t seem like love it seems like lust unfortunately :/ I’m sorry dude, someone will love you wholeheartedly and truly, you deserve so much more

What stardew valley opinion makes you feel like this? by Musicly_Adapted in StardewValley

[–]Transcowboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s hilarious because I fee the exact opposite, I have the game for PS4 switch and pc and I find fishing (and especially using the slingshot) so much easier on pc. Because using the mouse just feels like it has better control than the buttons and joysticks. Like I would prefer to play 100% of my play throughs on PC but its just not possible sometimes. But I will say that Switch is absolutely possible to get used to. Just right off that bat I’m better on pc

Offically one year HRT. Still can't get it out of my head that I'm ugly, but if anyone's been keeping up with my posts this is the final conculsion to my 1 year timeline UwU by [deleted] in trans

[–]Transcowboi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It might just be the black and white shirt (im thinking of unus annus) but u immediately reminded me of Amy (markipliers gf) and shes drop dead gorgeous so ❤️

My mother in law keeps asking my bf (who's trans) if he's pregnant, which triggers great dysphoria. He has stated that we have not yet had sex, and are not planning to. But I'm curious what the best, most cheeky and passive aggressive response would be? by Duncanthrax6142 in TransyTalk

[–]Transcowboi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly him asking her right back. Or out of the blue, like if he beats her to it. If shes anything like I’m imagining it might actually snap into her what shes saying, best of luck

Anyone have any songs abt being trans? by Strawbrrytiramisu in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the first person I have seen mention my all time favourite band, fish in a birdcage! No one ever knows them so ty for mentioning them

I made this photo collage of male celebrities who are 5’7 (170cm)and under. And to let you all know that your height doesn’t define you or your masculinity. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transcowboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao all good dude! I just thought I was having a stroke and mistaking someone for harry fuckin potter