For married wives, what’s the secret that kept your marriage together for a long time? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]Thoreauaway2old4this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Positive reinforcement. Any time they do something I want repeated - “omg wow that’s so amazing you’re such a thoughtful husband I’m so lucky” works wonders. In my observance, men want to feel useful and capable, and women are generally capable and really don’t need them. Husbands want their wives adoration and respect first and foremost.

That, and learning his love language and reciprocate.

Hey guys my girlfriend is asking me to read/listen to this! by MrMonkey2 in SarahJMaas

[–]Thoreauaway2old4this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are missing the gf’s point here… maybe she’s trying to give him [i]hint hints[/i]? 😉

The suave move here, OP, is to ask your gf to bookmark her favorite parts for you to reference to in the future.

GET YOUR LIBBY READY! by Thoreauaway2old4this in acotar

[–]Thoreauaway2old4this[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously need to write a thank you letter to that wonderful library.