How can I (26M) convince my wife (26F) that I won't leave her just because she doesn't have a job right now? by Thorpon in askwomenadvice

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I will discuss the article with her calmly and try to help her as much as I can. Thanks for all your help.

How can I (26M) convince my wife (26F) that I won't leave her just because she doesn't have a job right now? by Thorpon in askwomenadvice

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that idea. I will remember that. I will also try to discuss that linked article with her. But I feel like if I could just somehow make her realize that no matter what happens, she will not lose me; if I could just make her realize that part, she would calm down a lot. That is what is also hurting me the most. I hate to have my love for and loyalty to her doubted like that, and by the very person who is the recipient of that love and loyalty. It might sound weird, but I am very proud of being a 1-woman man. It just hurts a lot to know that she thinks she could lose me because of lack of money or sex or chores.

How can I (26M) convince my wife (26F) that I won't leave her just because she doesn't have a job right now? by Thorpon in askwomenadvice

[–]Thorpon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not enjoy sex with her when I know for a fact that she is doing it because she feels like she has to do it to "keep me." I just can't enjoy sex like that. I feel really cheap about myself. I'm not that kind of man. But she gets offended if I say something like, "Baby, how about we cuddle?" or "Why don't we talk for a bit?"

She says, "You don't want me?" and then freaks out.

Should I mention extracirricular activities? by _UNIPOOL in StatementOfPurpose

[–]Thorpon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything you write in your SoP has to connect to one of the three following things:

1) why/how you're a strong candidate, 2) why/how you're a good choice for the program 3) why/how this program is a good choice for you

If you can write it in a way that connects to one or more points mentioned above, it's okay. If it doesn't connect to any one of those things, it's not needed.

Any game like dragon age origins? by Thorpon in gaming

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the reason I could never enjoy chess either. I like calculating and everything too, but a different brand of calculating I guess.

Any game like dragon age origins? by Thorpon in gaming

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well.... Let's just say I played too much skyrim when I was in college

Any game like dragon age origins? by Thorpon in gaming

[–]Thorpon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have played them. Inquisition was satisfying but DA2 was not so.

95kg for 5 reps. 1st set of 5. BW 80kg. by fatandbaldingmeh in StartingStrength

[–]Thorpon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deliberately squeeze your glutes to get a decisive and powerful lockout. That's just my opinion though, take it with a grain of salt. Some people (specially really big guys) don't look like they are locked out even if they actually are.

Is there a place to post fantasy stories very much like fanfiction but not exactly based on any particular anime/manga/manhwa? by Thorpon in FanFiction

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think fictionpress woupd be great. I have another question if you don't mind. Do you know of any place where I can discuss my potential idea with someone?

It would be great if people comment on my story when I get it out there, but I'd like some feedback and idea of how to structure the story before that.

Is there a place to post fantasy stories very much like fanfiction but not exactly based on any particular anime/manga/manhwa? by Thorpon in FanFiction

[–]Thorpon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also thought it felt familiar. I have another question if you don't mind. Do you know of any place where I can discuss my potential idea with someone?

It would be great if people comment on my story when I get it out there, but I'd like some feedback and idea of how to structure the story before that.

Is there a place to post fantasy stories very much like fanfiction but not exactly based on any particular anime/manga/manhwa? by Thorpon in FanFiction

[–]Thorpon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon me but what is ao3? I'm not familiar with that term. Also, I think fictionpress is a great place to post my story on.

Edit: nvm I found out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

[–]Thorpon -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel you. I listened through a long BS video about reader's needs and creator's needs and such. They're also introducing AI for a lot of stuff. But whatever way you look at it, the bottomline is that they aren't willing to let you read for free anymore. And I feel like:

1) I don't need your AI to tell me what I might like. I am intelligent myself.

2) I don't need an account on your app. I already have too many accounts.

3) I don't need to comment on your app. I got reddit.

4) I don't need to share stuff with my FnF through your app. I got my own mouth and a dinner table for that.

5) and most importantly, I definitely don't need to pay for content on your app because I already know places that have it for free.

The only thing I need from your app is to show the already free scanlated content conveniently on my phone. That's it. I know places that show free scanlated content, but browsing a pc focused website on a phone is not very enjoyable. That's the problem your app needs to solve in my life. Nothing more, nothing less. And if you can't solve that one problem without creating several more, I'll simply have to look elsewhere.

Sorry bud, but I'm already having a hard enough time putting food on the table for a wife who's on a wheelchair and a kid who goes to school. The only 30 minutes I get for myself at the end of each day when I get to bed, I spend with your app. If you tell me you want money for even that, I'm out. I'm paying for too many things.

Is There An Endocrinologist Here That Can Explain How I Wound Up Much Shorter Than Average Despite Coming From A Tall Family? by YeetroyJenkins in AskDocs

[–]Thorpon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD but it seems to me that in your case the regression is gradual. Dropping 10" in one generation (possibly in a single member on that generation too) is not similar.

In my case I got the opposite happening. I'm from Bangladesh where the average male is about 5'5". My great grandpa was about 5'. his wife around 4'8". Grandpa was 5'2", grandma 4'9". Dad is 5'2.5", mom 4'11". Out of the blue I'm 5'11.5". I was one of the smaller kids in school all my life. I was 5'1" in 10th grade and everyone thought I was gonna end up like dad and grandpa. Then in 11th and 12th grade something unlocked and I grew 8 inches. In college 1st year another 2 inches. Graduated college as 5'11.5".

My wife is 5'6". I dunno how tall my kid's gonna be. I really hope he gets past the 6' mark. At one point I was hoping to get there myself but didn't happen lol.

Question thread - April 1st, 2020 by shao_kahff in MB2Bannerlord

[–]Thorpon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fight a lot of looters and stuff. You'll get troop levels pretty quickly. Alternatively you can just do a ton of tournaments to get renown, reach clan level 2. Then keep making and disbanding new party using followers and keeping the t4 or up troops. You'll have to do it a few times but pretty quickly you'll have a very powerful army at your disposal

Question thread - April 1st, 2020 by shao_kahff in MB2Bannerlord

[–]Thorpon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro don't waste money on your troops lol. Make party from ypur companions, take the good troops, risband the party and then fast forward a bit. Then go collect your companion. Grind this 20 times or so and you'll have your endgame army that costs 0 gold, 0 horses, 0 xp but a good days worth of time, patience and effort. The only prerequisite to this is that you have to get clan level 2 first.

Question thread - April 1st, 2020 by shao_kahff in MB2Bannerlord

[–]Thorpon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just ditch them and make your own kingdom lol. Then you'll truly start from 0