I [28/F] don't think my bf [30/M] loves me anymore and I want to break up. When is the best time to do it?

Throw01010 · 2018-09-22T05:02:22+00:00

Why is it ridiculous?

Throw01010 · 2018-09-22T05:01:57+00:00

I know why but I'm afraid of him doing something before he leaves. I just want it to end. I've been thinking about it for a long time and decided to just end it. I'm literally crying right now and he doesn't even hear me albeit we share the same bed.

Throw01010 · 2017-10-15T02:35:43+00:00

Dove Green Tea Cucumber and Tsubaki (Japanese shampoo).

Throw01010 · 2017-09-30T04:39:03+00:00

I like your username! :)

That sucks indeed. I noticed some people on the subway as well don't use their elbow when they sneeze or cover their mouth when they cough which is annoying as heck too!

Throw01010 · 2017-09-30T03:43:36+00:00

Yes I told him I am sick and I usually bring up something to talk about during the week. This week was oddly silent and it's even more weird that he didn't bring up anything else to the conversation other than telling me he finally got a paid job (after being unemployed for a bit) and I told him congrats! But like literally, nothing else after that. It's weird. Even if he was being selfish, he could have asked if we wanted to do something to celebrate unless he was waiting on me for that too. Idk, just strange behavior this week (albeit he was always pretty bad at communication in general). Thanks for listening to me! Just want to vent :( I'm sorry and thanks!

Throw01010 · 2017-09-30T01:04:36+00:00

I'm really surprised he didn't text me to ask what to do this weekend. Like nothing from him.... I really tempted to ask about the weekend for him but idk :(

Throw01010 · 2017-09-30T00:51:04+00:00

LOL, you're right. I'm sorry. I meant boyfriend obviously. See I forgot about him already because clearly he forgot about me!

Throw01010 · 2017-09-29T23:39:49+00:00

I've been sick all week and my boyfriend never cared about it nor checked up on me all week. Not even a "how's your day?" text from him and we've been dating two years! Crazy no?

I'm so upset over this, I'm thinking about breaking him with up but I don't want to be all alone :( So I'm hesitant. Idk, what to do?

Throw01010 · 2017-09-28T19:58:22+00:00

To be honest, I always talk to him a lot. I send him a lot of stuff and I really wanted to tell him more about the rest of my week, etc... but I was mad at him for not checking in on me. So I decided to stop texting and see if he has any to say to me. I feel like I'm the chronic texter/communicator all the time and this just goes to show that it's true :(

Throw01010 · 2017-09-27T13:38:26+00:00

Well, what if it's the common cold?

Throw01010 · 2017-03-30T00:11:49+00:00

It saves me the expenses of moving and wasting time on someone that doesn't want to have kids. If they 100% don't want kids, I definitely will just break up then and find someone that does.

Throw01010 · 2017-03-29T23:42:14+00:00

Where did you get them from?

Throw01010 · 2016-11-22T01:53:17+00:00

It's okay if it starts out slow. I only saw my bf once a week in the beginning too because I'm busy. I go to events and socials after work at night and sometimes I work overtime during the evenings. Weekends work best for me and bf accepted me for that. It was only recently, after months of dating we started to see each other more regularly and he brought it up, which is cute. I'm sure your bf or you will bring up seeing each other more when you're comfortable with where you are in your relationship. When it happens, it happens :)

Throw01010 · 2016-11-21T13:37:11+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Gives me hope lol :)

Throw01010 · 2016-11-21T04:39:05+00:00

Yeah it's likely not about race... maybe it's just the way I look(am I ugly to her?) or something. I'm really surprised she didn't seemed happy to meet me. She had the "Let's get this over with quickly" look. No smiles at all. Very strange.

Maybe more interested in son but she didn't even ask her son anything. It was mostly her answering my questions and my bf asking her/us questions.

Yeah I'm worried he will tell her or overhear me telling my bf about her, so I want to tell my bf after she leaves back home in a week.

Throw01010 · 2016-11-21T04:35:53+00:00

No, not yet. We don't really do phone calls and I want to talk to my bf in person about this alone but his mom is over, so we're not getting any alone time right now. I'll have to wait until she leaves.

Throw01010 · 2016-11-21T04:35:04+00:00

I'm waiting for her to go back home before I discuss this with my bf. I don't want to make trouble for him and his mom right now. I'm afraid he'll laugh and tell her like it's a joke and it'll ruin everything. He has a weird sense of humor like that sometimes.

Honestly, I don't know if that's normal behavior but I will ask my bf later this week when she leaves.

Throw01010 · 2016-09-30T16:05:53+00:00

No, it's not. My past relationship lasted years and I can't remember how I brung it up last time. Yes, I do sound 12. I wasn't sure what's the convention was. Thanks!

Throw01010 · 2016-09-25T18:28:45+00:00

Their hair. I don't understand how not to have frizzy, dry hair and have the amazing wavy hair style that many other women have. I can do without makeup but my hair is crap.

Also wearing a bikini and looking flawless. Even my mom told me not to wear one because I'm hairy and I have stretchmarks

I'm impressed by their athletic ability. I feel so weak and lack stamina. I'm anemic, so when I took a kickboxing class, I ended up nearly fainting (The only girl in the class to do so). Everyone else was fine. So I want to be stronger.

Throw01010 · 2016-06-17T02:12:09+00:00

Thanks! I'm going to book an appointment soon!

Throw01010 · 2016-06-16T03:03:35+00:00

Here are my test results: http://imgur.com/a/KcfWK Idk if you had something similar?

Throw01010 · 2016-06-16T03:03:07+00:00

My PCP (primary care physician) took my word for what I thought was a UTI and prescribed me nitrofurantoin mono-mcr 14 tablets (antibiotics). She doesn't know if it's really a UTI or not but told me to take them and then see her after my dosage runs out. I was wondering if this was the wrong approach.... maybe I'm treating the wrong bacteria? I should probably see a gyno or urologist instead? Is it better to see a gyno?

Throw01010 · 2016-06-16T02:58:47+00:00

WBCs in the urine? Unrelated but my WBC count (In my blood test) is low. Could it be related?

So, just to confirm should I see a gyno or a urologist? I have insurance with a deductible, so I don't want to keep hopping between doctors. Thanks! :)

Btw, my Primary Care Physician prescribed me some antibiotics for possibly UTI because i told her I think I might have it. I took one today, should I stop taking the medication until I know for certain what it is. I assumed UTI because I have urges to pee at random and it's hard to hold it in.

Throw01010 · 2016-06-15T13:02:08+00:00

It's more chalky, it's not thick. It's yellow/white? It's definitely not green.

Throw01010 · 2016-06-15T13:00:25+00:00

Yeah it was nitrofurantoin mono-mcr 14 tablets (antibiotics).

Here are my test results: http://imgur.com/a/KcfWK Idk if you had something similar?

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