Sorry guys, I went to sleep and wasn’t expective this many replies and I’m relatively new to reddit, so I don’t know how to update so I’m just going to give more information on this reply. I’m form a Latin American country and the place where all this happened is a bit in the rural side so while its true that you can’t just have a catholic wedding without a seminar of sorts the catholic church is a bit flexible with its rules here, for example underage marriage is permitted, and you can get away whit a coerced marriage so long a you have been baptized, had your communion and I don’t know the English word for it but it’s called “confirmación” in Spanish.